I love this post. It really starts to address just how complex this issue is. I'd add that we've evolved to a point where a stable & nurturing family environment is no longer the norm for many. Too many unplanned pregnancies, unwanted children, single-parent homes, et al.
I really don't know what the "fix" is. Your reply was a start, but it probably just scratches the surface.
My heart genuinely hurts when I see each new headline. Far from being "desensitized" to it all because of the frequency, I feel like it gets more painful each time. It probably sounds melodramatic, but I feel like our survival as a species might come down to identifying and providing a remedy for this one issue. I believe so many of our other problems come from whatever this is a symptom of. That was the impetus for this thread - we need to band together on this one, and figure it out.
Thanks.