Just to clarify a few points in my post above...
I used the term
"libido" which was coined by Sigmund Freud. Today it is used to refer to an individual's SEX DRIVE or DESIRE FOR SEXUAL ACTIVITY. The
libido seeks only one ...immediate gratification of Sexual Desire. Sexual desire is a subjective emotion.
Sexual Desire is primarily defined as desire for the pleasure that this contact brings.
Sexual Activity is that which fulfils sexual desire for contact with another person's body. Freud located the
libido in the unconscious section of his model of the human mind. So the
libido was not conscious, nor did it have any inherent SEXUAL MORALITY. To put it another way, there's no morality special to SEX. No act is WRONG purely because of its sexual nature.
Sex is morally neutral, it has no moral category....
What this means is that a man who is having casual sex with a woman he has only met that night is not doing anything immoral when he sucks her bosoms or licks her clitoris, nor is the female committing a moral act per se,
when she performs fellatio on her male lover. And what is the act of
coitus that takes place between them, buy the insertion of one anatomical piece of flesh (an erect male penis) into the the woman's vagina (another anatomical structure. The different bits and pieces of male and female genitalia, do bot ponder moral precepts while they are engaged in sexual activity. It is not as though while they are making love in a haystack, a tiny moral organ located inside the
glans of the male's penis sends up urgent, little messages to the man's brain saying : "Stop this at once ! What you are doing is very bad. What would your wife think !?"
The fact that sex tends to involve one person inserting or rubbing their genitalia on the body of their sexual partner/s, or licking and sucking the other's breasts, nipples or genitalia, or inflicting doses of regulated pain (BDSM) or urinating/defecating on each other's bodies (I think you get the idea of how diverse and "recherche" sexual activity has increasingly become in the West !) all sorts of practices that you might disapprove of, does not alter it status as being MORALLY NEUTRAL. However sex can place individuals in RELATIONS IN WHICH MORAL CONSIDERATIONS APPLY. In other words, sex provides people with an opportunity to do what is otherwise regarded as WRONG: TO HARM, DECEIVE or MANIPULATE or EXPLOIT others against their. For instance the sexual assault or rape of a male or female minor or adult; the sex-trafficking of minors/adult women, paedophilia, deceiving persons into having sex on false pretences, taking advantage of a person's inebriation or drug intoxication to have sex with them without their rational consent. Also, there is the example of the College Professor who has sex with one of his 18 y.o. female students or the Physician who enters into a sexual relationship with a vulnerable patient; likewise, a Lawyer with one of his clients or a Boss with one of his worker. Here exploitation or coercion may be involved and, if so, render this conduct wrongful.
BESTIAL BEHAVIOUR
In ancient ATHENS, the famous Western philosopher, Plato, argued that sex without love expresses our animal natures. The ancient Greek philosophers believe that only man was gifted with reason - the ability to think rationally and logically. They thought that animals did not possess any reason - (well, certainly nothing like what humans had) And reason was a BIG DEAL for philosophers like Plato, Aristotle, Socrates and Co. Plato was concerned that while having sex with a woman, a man's reason tended to be largely blotted out of his mind (NB: ancient Athens was a patriarchy, that's why I use the example of a male's mind being sapped of reason during sex with a woman). If you think about it, Plato's right. Think back to the last time you were "going for it" with some stray Hottie you picked up at a TRUMP RALLY

. What was going through your ming while you were giving this sex-kitten a damn, good seeing to? I bet it wasn't Calculus or Rocket-Science equations. Right? Your capacity for reasoning was probably on a par with my Dachshund's when it is humping a bitch in heat ! A lot of people in America still argue that the loss of rational control during sex has led to casual sex posing a risk for sexual promiscuity, which in turn has created legion social problems in US cities like teenage pregnancy,sexual assault, rape, etc.
BTW: NOTE PLATO SAID THAT SEX WITHOUT LOVE WAS THE PROBLEM.
SEXUAL ACTIVITY + LOVE = ROMANTIC LOVE
Imagine a happily-married American couple who are in their early 40s and have been married for a little over 10 years. They have a successful partnership. Their intimate relations as husband and wife could not be properly described as mindless sexual intercourse (and whatever other purely physical sexual activities they enjoy). They do not just fuck each other - this way and that) in order to derive sexual pleasure culminating in orgasm Although
SEX-IN-ITSELF is MORALLY NEUTRAL, in the case of a happily-married couple,
PHYSICAL SEX and LOVE can fuse into a mutually enhancing shared experience. that you might call MAKING LOVE.
In the case of the married couple I mentioned above, regular sex helps to cement their emotional bond, this boost derives in part from the physical sexual activity they engage in
IN THE SENSE that it expresses:
INTIMACY; OPENNESS; TRANSPARENCY; VULNERABILITY; POSITIVE COMMUNICATION and a commitment to maintain EROTIC ENERGY. Also, what happens after they have sexual relations - as LOVE-MAKING - is vital as well. Recent research on "after-glow - including pillow talk and cuddling - has found that the feeling of enhanced sexual satisfaction following a sexual encounter can leave partners feeling better for weeks or even months. Where partners worry about why they may not be having sex as often as they once did, interestingly, the research indicates a decline in a couples sex life is more commonly a reflection of problems in the relationship NOT the cause.
Dachshund - the WONDER HOUND
DLM....Dachshund Lives Matter