Do men have to refer to each other, self-consciously, as "man" in order to express concern or empathy for each other on the internet? Like, let's say Onceler answered the way I would have: Oh Cawacko I forgot you're unemployed, how is that going? I know you are going to get a job!
And Cawacko had responded to that the way I would: "Oh thanks, that's so nice of you."
Would that put you both under suspicion of being not entirely heterosexual to other men here?
I'm just trying to learn!
Get sex off your mind and realize it means nothing in how we address one another.....
buy yourself a vibrator or something and get over it.....