My opinion is the spouse should have full authority when it comes to medical decisions. In fact, that is the primary reason I married.
Years ago, I had an accident which resulted in being unable to state medical directives. My female partner at the time and my brother vied for authority. The doctors, one of them knowing my brother, decided his directives would be followed. Life and death decisions were made on my behalf, specifically, when my lungs collapsed and my heart required electrical impulses to keep it going.
The question was should I be kept alive when the doctors did not know if I would be paralyzed from the neck down as my spine had been fractured.
Fortunately, I did not suffer paralysis.
While I now have a "living will" I wanted to be sure that should misfortune strike, here or in another country, my wife could speak for me.
I can't imagine a Hell worse than having a beautiful woman by my side and not being able to move. That would be worse than death!
Whatever one may think motivated Michael Schiavo he is a hero in my book. How many people would strive for fifteen years trying to honor a promise?
It wasn't until 1998, 8 years later that Terri's husband, Michael, filed a petition to remove Terri's feeding tub.
He should have requested this sooner if he felt it was really what she would have wanted....
I don't know what this "promise" was that you mention, he waited 8 years.
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