I'm not the one refusing. You are
I'm not the one submitting personal, unverifiable anecdotes into the debate to compensate for the fact that no verifiable data exists to support any of my positions,
you are, asshole.
You're the one who can't make an argument on facts so instead you invoke a personal circumstance you know no one will be able to verify.
It's a form of astro-turfing; you pretend to be something you're not to lend your bad argument credibility it doesn't have on the facts. Then you bristle when asked to prove any of the claims you've made about yourself, making your own verification contingent on the actions of someone totally unrelated.
There's nothing I'm doing that is preventing you from verifying any of the claims you make about yourself on these boards. So it seems to be that you're just saying whatever sounds right to you and hinging your entire argument around something you know cannot be verified here, that requires you to dox yourself.
If we met in public, what's to stop me from just outing you here on these boards anyway? Are you going to try to threaten me or something? Do you want to get into an altercation with me? Let me tell you something right now; us meeting face to face
will not end well for you. It will be fine for me, but not for you. Because what will happen is that I will document the whole thing; I'll get your license plate #, I'll get your name, I'll get your picture, then it's just a few easy clicks in a background check,
and your entire personal history will be splashed across this board, across Twitter, across Facebook, and across your community.
So challenging me to meeting in public will only end badly for you, with your personal information splashed across the internet for everyone to see.