The lawmakers are constitutionally proscribed from making different laws according to gender. Understandably.
That's why we haven't reinstated the military draft yet.
That said, if a sane person tells me that he/she can't see the difference
between adult male / adolescent girl
and
adult woman / adolescent boy,
then I'm calling that person a liar to his/her face.
Well, you're also an ancient, misogynistic sexist, so there's that.