Some times I must get so caught up in men here mansplaining, I forget that they are just as big whitesplainers!
I am not saying that BAC shouldn't be offended or that he shouldn't take issue with that word. That word has a vile history and I wouldn't begin to tell BAC that it shouldn't be a big deal to him or something like that.
I am just commenting on tarantino's "fetishizing" the word. I think it's a natural byproduct when you always write seedy characters. Tarantino also has extremely violent movies, where people are getting killed left and right. I don't think that means Tarantino is secretly a violent person.