I'm not pretending these aren't extremely tough issues. You won't see me making light of them as you did with the OP.
But, philiosophically, you either think the US should be a global policeman, or you don't. I don't. In the post WWII-era, our attempts to meddle and solve with our military have - much more often than not - caused even more misery, and ended up being much more protracted engagements than anyone predicted. People talk about "exit strategy"...when have we ever had one? We certainly don't now. The suffering around the world is brutal, but we can't solve it with our military, and it's not right to ask the young men & women who sign up for service to do so. You open a can of worms whenever you engage with the miitary; it's like Woody Hayes used to say about football - 3 things can happen when you pass, and only one of them is good.
That's a long-winded way of saying that I don't really have a solution to Libya. But if anyone sees what's going on now & thinks "solution," they're kidding themselves. I'd be all for unauthorized assasination, actually - and yeah, I know how that sounds.....