DamnYankee
Loyal to the end
You are assuming the father has nothing to do with her life.
Farah Fawcet lived with the father of her children, they never married. Since I don't know Natalie I cannot say if the father is participatory in their lives or not.
All I'm saying here is that traditional marriage creates stability in the lives of the children. I don't know Fawcet's kids so don't know if they grew up to be stable adults. But your mention of Fawcet brings up another issue- what part of her emotional instability may have been caused by the inherent instability of her marriage?