There is no "playing" and my position is still the law, so YOU are the loser.... sorry!
Marriage is the union of a male and female for the purpose of procreation. That is what it is, and what it always has been in America and in the Church. It is only within the past decade or so, we have been entertained by morons who think they can "redefine" what marriage is, to legitimize homosexual relationships. Since that isn't what marriage is, or ever has been, and since it is an important foundational and fundamental part of religious custom, you've been met with fierce opposition to the willy-nilly notion of just changing the definition. Since that has happened, you have sought to go on a rampage of insulting people, accusing them of being homophobic bigots, likening them to racists, and telling them they are "afraid" of change. It has done you no good whatsoever, nearly 80% of the country still opposes Gay Marriage.
You are the one with a "narrow thought process" here, not me. You mistakenly think that your viewpoint will be accepted, if only you can brow-beat enough people, if only you can insult them enough to come around to your way of thinking, and it hasn't worked. But you still continue, the same conversations, the same arguments, the same false claims and insults... never changes, you'll be back to start a new thread tomorrow to repeat it all again... like the narrow-minded fool you are.
If your concerns were legitimately regarding what benefits homosexual couples obtained, you would stop trying to cram Gay Marriage down people's throats, and you would realize how futile that effort is, but being a narrow-minded twit, you can't possibly bring yourself to think of anything else to do! So you'll repeat yourself over and over again, to people who are never going to change their opinions or views, because they have legitimate reasons to hold those views. In the process of you acting like a narrow-minded idiot, you push people even further away from the viewpoint you want them to have, because that is how people react to those who insult them.
Comprehensive Civil Unions legislation would accomplish everything you and the homosexual couples wish to accomplish, without denigrating religious traditions or upsetting religious people, or "redefining" the meaning of traditional marriage. It could be established, not only as a mechanism to assist gay couples with 'married' benefits, but spinster sisters, a son or daughter with an aging parent to care for, or just two platonic friends who wanted to share a household together. It's actually a BETTER solution than the narrow-minded solution you refuse to abandon... but being you are a narrow-minded twit, who is incapable of change, and unwilling to compromise, we will rehash this same stupid Gay Marriage debate all over again tomorrow, and the next day, and the day after that... but you will never get what you want, it isn't going to happen.