My advice: Be rich.

Mina

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With graduation season looming and a friend of mine working on a commencement speech, I was thinking about what advice I'd offer to a graduating class. Usually such speeches tend to go with touch-feely "take the road less traveled" advice. I hate to admit it, but if I were framing my advice not in terms of what is best for the country and the world, but just in terms of what is best for the graduates, my urgent advice would be to earn a lot of money in a hurry.

Easier said than done, right? Yes. But even if that weren't an issue, my advice definitely would be different today than several decades ago. Back in the 1950's and 1960's, there were huge injustices in this country, mostly based on race, gender, and sexuality. But when it came to something you had some control over --how much money you'd make-- the stakes weren't so high. In 1965, the average CEO earned about 15 times as much as an average worker. The gap between a typical worker and a typical executive was even smaller. Thanks to federal income taxes of up to 70% on the top bracket, the gap was even smaller when it came to after-tax pay. And for the most part, at least within racial units, the rich lived in the same basic neighborhoods as the middle class, sent their kids to the same schools, and lived very similar lives.

These days, though, the average CEO makes 351 times as much as the average worker. The gap is huge even between typical executives and average people. The rich live in private gated communities with their own security, and no need to care about crime in other areas. The rich send their kids to private schools, with no need to care if public schools fall apart. They have multiple homes, with the ability to flee climate disasters. They lead fundamentally different lives.

That gap is eroding democracy, too. These days, politicians can largely neglect the interests of the majority, since gerrymandering has effectively created a class of suburban/rural super-voters. Time and again we see the majority in a state vote Democrat, and then a majority of seats go to the Republicans. In Wisconsin, in 2018, Democrats got 18% more votes than Republicans in the state assembly elections. The result was Republicans getting 75% more seats than the Democrats. Meanwhile, traditional news is being supplanted by social media controlled by a handful of white, male tech-bro billionaires, where they'll have the power to drive public opinion and ultimately public policy for the ultra rich.

In the 1960s, there was an argument to be made that an individual would live a happier, fuller life following his bliss rather than following the dollars. If you, say, loved teaching, then there was a solid middle-class existence you could choose that way, with community respect and a life not too terribly different from the life some classmate might lead if he became a banker, instead. But now, you'd be signing up for a whole different existence.... and a real possibility of a future of poverty and exploitation at the hands of a plutocracy. At this point, money isn't just about getting yourself a few little luxuries the masses won't have. It's about defending against existential threats.
 
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My second-oldest grandson graduates in a week with a BS in mechanical engineering. His goal is "to be rich." As a hippie from the 60s I can't say that I approve of such a goal, but I get where you and he are coming from. For his grad gift he's getting some money and he's also getting a book recommended by my own Mr. Capitalist, "A Random Walk Down Wall Street."
 
"What about the main thing in life, all its riddles? If you want, I'll spell it out for you right now. Do not pursue what is illusionary - property and position: all that is gained at the expense of your nerves decade after decade, and is confiscated in one fell night. Live with a steady superiority over life - don't be afraid of misfortune, and do not yearn for happiness; it is, after all, all the same: the bitter doesn't last forever, and the sweet never fills the cup to overflowing. It is enough if you don't freeze in the cold and if thirst and hunger don't claw at your insides. If your back isn't broken, if your feet can walk, if both arms can bend, if both eyes can see, if both ears hear, then whom should you envy? And why? Our envy of others devours us most of all. Rub your eyes and purify your heart - and prize above all else in the world those who love you and who wish you well. Do not hurt them or scold them, and never part from any of them in anger; after all, you simply do not know: it may be your last act before your arrest, and that will be how you are imprinted on their memory."

--> Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn
 
the advice they gave us in law school......1) marry a rich lawyer's daughter.......or 2) work your ass off for thirty years and THEN marry a rich lawyer's daughter.........
 
What do you consider "rich?" How much money and 'stuff' do you need to have to be rich? Is being worth more than a million rich?
 
My second-oldest grandson graduates in a week with a BS in mechanical engineering. His goal is "to be rich." As a hippie from the 60s I can't say that I approve of such a goal, but I get where you and he are coming from. For his grad gift he's getting some money and he's also getting a book recommended by my own Mr. Capitalist, "A Random Walk Down Wall Street."

My son is completing his first semester at OU, majoring in Mathematics, minoring in Japanese. My advice for his is to get a degree he can use to make a living. Hopefully he’s chosen wisely. It’s obvious to me he wants to make more money than his old man. Hope he succeeds.
 
With graduation season looming and a friend of mine working on a commencement speech, I was thinking about what advice I'd offer to a graduating class. Usually such speeches tend to go with touch-feely "take the road less traveled" advice. I hate to admit it, but if I were framing my advice not in terms of what is best for the country and the world, but just in terms of what is best for the graduates, my urgent advice would be to earn a lot of money in a hurry.

Easier said than done, right? Yes. But even if that weren't an issue, my advice definitely would be different today than several decades ago. Back in the 1950's and 1960's, there were huge injustices in this country, mostly based on race, gender, and sexuality. But when it came to something you had some control over --how much money you'd make-- the stakes weren't so high. In 1965, the average CEO earned about 15 times as much as an average worker. The gap between a typical worker and a typical executive was even smaller. Thanks to federal income taxes of up to 70% on the top bracket, the gap was even smaller when it came to after-tax pay. And for the most part, at least within racial units, the rich lived in the same basic neighborhoods as the middle class, sent their kids to the same schools, and lived very similar lives.

These days, though, the average CEO makes 351 times as much as the average worker. The gap is huge even between typical executives and average people. The rich live in private gated communities with their own security, and no need to care about crime in other areas. The rich send their kids to private schools, with no need to care if public schools fall apart. They have multiple homes, with the ability to flee climate disasters. They lead fundamentally different lives.

That gap is eroding democracy, too. These days, politicians can largely neglect the interests of the majority, since gerrymandering has effectively created a class of suburban/rural super-voters. Time and again we see the majority in a state vote Democrat, and then a majority of seats go to the Republicans. In Wisconsin, in 2018, Democrats got 18% more votes than Republicans in the state assembly elections. The result was Republicans getting 75% more seats than the Democrats. Meanwhile, traditional news is being supplanted by social media controlled by a handful of white, male tech-bro billionaires, where they'll have the power to drive public opinion and ultimately public policy for the ultra rich.

In the 1960s, there was an argument to be made that an individual would live a happier, fuller life following his bliss rather than following the dollars. If you, say, loved teaching, then there was a solid middle-class existence you could choose that way, with community respect and a life not too terribly different from the life some classmate might lead if he became a banker, instead. But now, you'd be signing up for a whole different existence.... and a real possibility of a future of poverty and exploitation at the hands of a plutocracy. At this point, money isn't just about getting yourself a few little luxuries the masses won't have. It's about defending against existential threats.

You are bordering on lack of consideration for your reader with such a long post.

Distillation is a great skill to learn.
 
What do you consider "rich?" How much money and 'stuff' do you need to have to be rich? Is being worth more than a million rich?

Being "rich" is earning income from others' labor. If you park a couple of million dollars in a high-yield dividend ETF, you can easily collect $100,000/yr doing nada. Having free income while living your life however you wish without needing to hold a job or worry about money is rich, imo.
 
Being "rich" is earning income from others' labor. If you park a couple of million dollars in a high-yield dividend ETF, you can easily collect $100,000/yr doing nada. Having free income while living your life however you wish without needing to hold a job or worry about money is rich, imo.

So, if you own a business you work at and it makes a million dollars a year from the results of your labor... Let's say your a lawyer or doctor... then you aren't "rich?" Or, you've saved and invested in various things for years and years and now have accumulated millions of dollars in assets, you aren't "rich?"
 
So, if you own a business you work at and it makes a million dollars a year from the results of your labor... Let's say your a lawyer or doctor... then you aren't "rich?"

All I'm saying is that I equate wealth with freedom -- i.e., the freedom to live my life as I wish. A doctor or a lawyer has to sacrifice most hours of the week to maintain that high salary. They may be "rich" in the sense that they have a big bank account, but I personally value my time over a large salary; I consider the man who lives entirely off a modest passive income source and unburdened with work far, far richer than the doctor or lawyer who hardly sleeps or sees his family.
 
All I'm saying is that I equate wealth with freedom -- i.e., the freedom to live my life as I wish. A doctor or a lawyer has to sacrifice most hours of the week to maintain that high salary. They may be "rich" in the sense that they have a big bank account, but I personally value my time over a large salary; I consider the man who lives entirely off a modest passive income source and unburdened with work far, far richer than the doctor or lawyer who hardly sleeps or sees his family.

Okay. I have that sort of freedom in retirement. Does that make me "rich?" I still do side work as an electrician to keep busy. I do other stuff like that for the same reason. I don't need the money from it particularly. Am I "rich?"
 
My son is completing his first semester at OU, majoring in Mathematics, minoring in Japanese. My advice for his is to get a degree he can use to make a living. Hopefully he’s chosen wisely. It’s obvious to me he wants to make more money than his old man. Hope he succeeds.

It is the hope of all good parents that their children fair better than they did.
 
Okay. I have that sort of freedom in retirement. Does that make me "rich?" I still do side work as an electrician to keep busy. I do other stuff like that for the same reason. I don't need the money from it particularly. Am I "rich?"

I would say so. Time is more precious than surplus money.
 
My son is completing his first semester at OU, majoring in Mathematics, minoring in Japanese. My advice for his is to get a degree he can use to make a living. Hopefully he’s chosen wisely. It’s obvious to me he wants to make more money than his old man. Hope he succeeds.

Mathematics is an excellent field; he can pretty much write his own ticket. Go into IT, data analysis, insurance (analysis not selling unless he's into that), etc. One of my sons-in-law got a degree in math in his early 30s. He's now a h.s. math teacher but is pretty unhappy with that. Teaching is fine, the kids have little discipline and disrupt the class for the kids who want to learn.
 
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