There's the man and the legend that grew up around him be it Jesse James, FDR or Jesus. There's no doubt in my mind a lot of the stories "proving" the divinity of Jesus were found post-mortem.
Try telling a kid there's no Santa Claus, it's all a big lie and they'll be pissed at you. Explaining that Santa is really the love parents have for their child would make the child happy. Both are true, but one is negative and the other is positive. I favor the latter approach.
OTOH, some children are insane and need medication.![]()
When I first got a computer back in the mid-90s I used to enjoy forums and chat rooms that were either political or about religions. Eventually I grew away from the religious ones because there was, in the end, no answer to my questions. The discussions did help me refine my own path (pagan) and articulate my own beliefs, so they did have value.
Basically, IMO, our personal paths come down to what most satisfies our soul. All mainstream religions, and most pagan ones as well, come from the opinions of human beings. There is no proven divinity in any of them; they consist only of myths, legends, and personal opinions and interpretations. This is also true of all supposedly god-given religious scriptures as well as texts about them. Those who see themselves as very devout quote from these scriptures as though they are golden, either ignoring or unaware that they were actually created by other humans with their own agendas. The militant atheists are/were just as bad. There is no reaching these ppl. I'm content to live and let live, until they get in my face.