Well, I am trying to be gentle with you because I can see this has totally turned your life upside down, shaken you core beliefs, and rocked your foundation. I understand you are bowed up. All the time, every time, I see yours posts lamenting, berating, and generally wailing over your loss.
Obviously it hurts. You, like we, are going to have to buckle up and be prepared to hear, "no". You won't get your way, you have to accept it, and there's nothing you can do about it.
It's c-h-a-n-ge. You remember that word and all its connotations we heard ad nauseum over the course of these last 8 years?
All you need now is that "hope" thangy Obama was going on and on about.
