We are a Christian nation and don't want to see people starving to death on our streets. There are people who take advantage of the system and there are people who work hard but for a couple of bad breaks are in a position where we need help. The reality is the government safety net will never be taken away. The discussion has turned to issues like this one where should people who get government help have choice over what they choose to purchase.
The government isn't providing the help. The government couldn't distribute a dime unless it first took something from others who do provide for themselves and hand it to those who don't.
If people who demand help don't want to be told what they can and cannot do, don't demand it. It's that simple. If they do demand it, they should STFU when those forced to provide it tell them how to use it.
While there are some who are where they are due to nothing they did, MOST people are where they are in life based on choices they made. The high school dropout that can't make much is there due to a choice he/she made. That they continue to get turned down for jobs isn't a bad break but the result of a choice. The convicted felon that can't get a job isn't unemployable due to bad breaks but a choice he/she made. The drug addict that can't stay sober doesn't stay unemployed by bad breaks but by the choice to use drugs. And the list goes on.
If someone who truly can't work or didn't cause their own problems needs help, I'll help him/her if I deem the need valid. It isn't your place nor the government's place to make that determination. On the flip side, if someone can work but won't or they are in a bad place due to choices they made and said were none of my business when they made those choice, I don't have a problem letting them do without.
The worst part about those supporting people on the government dole having so much freedom and choice when it comes to what they can buy is that they're using money someone else was forced to provide and those forced to provide it don't have the freedom to say no with their own money.