My entire point is that all women are not anything. Women are just like men. Human beings who have both positive and negative qualities. They even have qualities that are viewed as positive when men have them.
You have a very skewed vision of what women are. I have seen you use many gendered insults against men. For one example - DY. You compare him to a vindictive, nasty woman. You know what Dy reminds me of? A vindictive, nasty man. Vindictiveness is not a female trait. It's a personality trait that some women and some men have. I've seen a lot of this from you and never said anything, mostly because you are being attacked in homophobic and gendered terms at the time.
Bend over queen? Bitch? Other names that come to mind that I can't write. They are all gendered insults. Half of homophobia is based in fear of one's own sexuality, the other half is based in misogyny, IMO. But you engage in misogyny yourself. You are certainly more than capable of seeing racism even when it is couched, so don't try and tell me you can't see sexism.
The definition of a woman is not a person who maintains all wonderful qualities. No woman has to cow-tow to you or anyone else and prove her worthiness as a woman by being sweet or demure. That is the very definition of the patriarchy which has always rewarded "good" women.
I'm sorry, but I'm not ready to group "all women" into a circle and give them preference and excuses, simply because they are female. Some women are women, others are banshees, bitches and vile creatures. If you want to be in denial of the reality, be my guest. When a woman decides to act like a bitch, she becomes "a bitch", and no woman.
Act accordingly. When a man decides to "act like a bitch", he becomes one. Act accordingly.
You, obviously, don't know me. After all of my many posts, which testify to the fact that my mother, saint that she was, was the most important, and influential person in my life, who I place on the highest pedestal, and that you could think that I'm "sexist" or demeaning to woman defies comprehension.
What better way to defuse homophobia, and bigotry than to call a bigoted man a woman, a bitch or gayer than a 3 dollar bill? Don't you see how they rail, when it's done?
Don't bring none, won't be none.
No one. No one person in this entire forum has had to endure the hate, insults and attacks that I have had to endure. And only two handfuls of forum members, staunch and true, have come to my aid. You, obviously are ambivalent. So be it. Be under your illusion, that women can do no wrong, and should be excused in each and every instance, simply because they are women. I don't believe that. And neither do I believe most thinking forum members would agree with that. Most of my supporters are able to read between my lines, and to "get me". It happens, wherever I go. And there are those, who think that their positions trump mine, and minimize the attacks upon me, from every quarter, and expect me to "just get over it". Dream on. I'm a black gay liberal Democratic male. I consider myself a feminist and altruist. I worship women. I despise bitches, and will become one, in a New York minute, as necessary. If that doesn't set well with you. I'm sorry, and "oh well'. Put me on ignore.
