Why Are Kids Choosing Objects As Their Genders?

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It's super common to see pronouns listed like this: he/his, she/her, they/their. But occasionally, you might also find a list like this: he/him/bun/bunny. More than any other generation, Gen Z is broadening their view and challenging the traditional idea of gender. In fact, Time Magazine reported in 2023 that more than half of Gen Z-ers believe that there are more than two genders.
A gender that goes beyond the traditional binary of male and female is called "nonbinary." If you don't personally know someone who is nonbinary, you've probably noticed that some big-name celebrities — like Atypical star Brigette Lundy-Pain and The Last of Us star Bella Ramsey — have publicized their nonbinary identities.
Within the nonbinary community, there is a small percentage of people who are choosing to take gender outside of the human realm altogether. If you’re the parent of a child who falls within this percentage, you’re probably wondering how you can support your kid’s identity. I asked experts for insight and advice, and here’s what I learned.

What are xenogenders and neopronouns?

The xenogender label popped up on Tumblr about 10 years ago for people who describe their gender using plants, animals, creatures, and objects. This practice is accompanied by a separate but related one involving pronouns, with some kids and teens choosing to use "nounself" pronouns.
These pronouns, created using existing words or themes, might look like this: wol/wolf/wolfself or fae/faer/faeself or vamp/vampself.
According to research from The Trevor Project, the number of people using nounself pronouns is very small. They tend to pop up among intense fandoms, gaming communities, and neurodiverse youth. Some kids choose to use them only in certain contexts, such as online roleplay, or only with certain people, like friends or relatives.

 
It's super common to see pronouns listed like this: he/his, she/her, they/their. But occasionally, you might also find a list like this: he/him/bun/bunny. More than any other generation, Gen Z is broadening their view and challenging the traditional idea of gender. In fact, Time Magazine reported in 2023 that more than half of Gen Z-ers believe that there are more than two genders.
A gender that goes beyond the traditional binary of male and female is called "nonbinary." If you don't personally know someone who is nonbinary, you've probably noticed that some big-name celebrities — like Atypical star Brigette Lundy-Pain and The Last of Us star Bella Ramsey — have publicized their nonbinary identities.
Within the nonbinary community, there is a small percentage of people who are choosing to take gender outside of the human realm altogether. If you’re the parent of a child who falls within this percentage, you’re probably wondering how you can support your kid’s identity. I asked experts for insight and advice, and here’s what I learned.

What are xenogenders and neopronouns?

The xenogender label popped up on Tumblr about 10 years ago for people who describe their gender using plants, animals, creatures, and objects. This practice is accompanied by a separate but related one involving pronouns, with some kids and teens choosing to use "nounself" pronouns.
These pronouns, created using existing words or themes, might look like this: wol/wolf/wolfself or fae/faer/faeself or vamp/vampself.
According to research from The Trevor Project, the number of people using nounself pronouns is very small. They tend to pop up among intense fandoms, gaming communities, and neurodiverse youth. Some kids choose to use them only in certain contexts, such as online roleplay, or only with certain people, like friends or relatives.

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there is merit to this teaching.

strict gender roles are kind of bullshit in a rational world.

tomboy girlsare awesome. nice guys make the world go round, in truth.

they're both straight by the way.
Gender and Sexual orientation are two different things!
Although my Trans friend , claims,that if you're Bigender like Janis is,that it's impossible not to be Bisexual!rainbow_flags__gender_non_binary_by_adcro_d9384tg-fullview.jpg
but Mikey, you have to admit, xeno-sexual is cray cray.
What is "xeno-sexual"?
 
right. gender has two options. male or female.

sexual orientation is where the fantasy comes in. and that's fine.

why is there ever a reason to mutilate the body tho, if you say the flesh and the orientation are not the same?
Non binary people are not all Trans. I agree you can't change your flesh !
Has nothing to do with being Bigender! Which is simply putting an
Androgynous Spirit into either a Male or Female body!
 
It's super common to see pronouns listed like this: he/his, she/her, they/their. But occasionally, you might also find a list like this: he/him/bun/bunny. More than any other generation, Gen Z is broadening their view and challenging the traditional idea of gender. In fact, Time Magazine reported in 2023 that more than half of Gen Z-ers believe that there are more than two genders.
A gender that goes beyond the traditional binary of male and female is called "nonbinary." If you don't personally know someone who is nonbinary, you've probably noticed that some big-name celebrities — like Atypical star Brigette Lundy-Pain and The Last of Us star Bella Ramsey — have publicized their nonbinary identities.
Within the nonbinary community, there is a small percentage of people who are choosing to take gender outside of the human realm altogether. If you’re the parent of a child who falls within this percentage, you’re probably wondering how you can support your kid’s identity. I asked experts for insight and advice, and here’s what I learned.

What are xenogenders and neopronouns?

The xenogender label popped up on Tumblr about 10 years ago for people who describe their gender using plants, animals, creatures, and objects. This practice is accompanied by a separate but related one involving pronouns, with some kids and teens choosing to use "nounself" pronouns.
These pronouns, created using existing words or themes, might look like this: wol/wolf/wolfself or fae/faer/faeself or vamp/vampself.
According to research from The Trevor Project, the number of people using nounself pronouns is very small. They tend to pop up among intense fandoms, gaming communities, and neurodiverse youth. Some kids choose to use them only in certain contexts, such as online roleplay, or only with certain people, like friends or relatives.

The material you quoted is real, but the framing is doing most of the work.

The article itself makes clear that xenogenders and nounself pronouns are used by a very small subset of youth, mostly in online or roleplay contexts. It’s not a mainstream Gen‑Z phenomenon.

TIME’s reporting about Gen‑Z attitudes toward gender is accurate, but using niche Tumblr‑origin identities to represent an entire generation is a distortion of the source.
 
I'm sorry on that one.

its just all this new stupid vocabulary is clouding issues that were all settled.

all to encourage body mutilation.
Again , Transitioning Trans are only one segment of the non binary community!
They get all the press! And bring flak down on the rest of us ,from the tight sphincter Cis community!
 
you should reject their freakishness as well.

sorry. its mental illness.

all those doctors should lose their licenses as well.
Calling an entire group mentally ill isn’t an argument. Major medical organizations APA, AMA, Endocrine Society, WPATH, do not classify being transgender or non‑binary as a mental illness. If you want to disagree with someone’s identity, that’s your opinion, but it’s not a medical fact. And demanding that doctors lose their licenses for following established clinical guidelines isn’t a serious position, it’s just venting.
 
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