I think we've already talked about this... if you think that every child with an imperfect parent would have been better off aborted than there wouldn't be too many around... I know that you might be okay with that ...I, on the other hand, would not...is every unplanned pregnancy a screw up?... I guess you could say that it might have been... but it sure wouldn't be too difficult to have less of them if people took a little more responsibility... and I know a ton of people who had them and didn't abort their child...A rape is a tragedy... still a child though that is a part of the mother but I can and do sympathize with some women being unable to deal with a child like that knowing how they were conceived... I also imagine there are women who choose to keep their child and somehow find a way to deal with that.. each of those situations are very unique... But once again... the wish is to have less situations where a woman even needs to consider an abortion... why isn't that the issue that everyone is focusing on? That doesn't seem to be much of a concern...and it should be... (It would be lovely if all parents were like yours and mine.. each and every day I remind the parents that I talk to how important it is to want..and love...and support their children... a lot of the times it helps.... (our prom was Saturday night... there were a lot of kids who needed assistance from staff and the community to make it possible for them to attend... times are tough now but because parents sometimes can't afford everything for their kids doesn't mean they love them less... or that they would have been better off aborted... just saying)
It goes way, way beyond the abortion issue. TOP.
It goes to our very beliefs about life itself.
I don't believe
nor have I ever believed
that life has absolute value.
I can't be sure, but I think that that is some kind of religious concept,
and I'm, of course, unafflicted with religious superstitions of any kind.
I believe that life must be valued,
like everything else, in qualitative terms.
Thus, any life in which the rewards inadequately compensate the travails
is a NET NEGATIVE EXPERIENCE,
and a net negative experience is an experience not worth having.
It is, in fact, one worth avoiding.
If, for some reason, you believe that even a miserable life is worth
something,
then logically,
that would carry over to the abortion issue as well.
I, in all sincerity and in good conscience, go all the way to the other side.
I believe in legal euthanasia for lives that are excessively
inconvenient, at least from the point of view of those living them..
I see only cruelty in allowing people to suffer, even forcing them to, when they don't have to.
In other words, it's just as much--at least as much--a moral issue for me as it is for you.
Not all moral compasses point to the same true north,
and people don't back down from moral stances. Those ARE in fact absolute.
That's why I believe that red state America and blue state America don't belong in the same republic.
Traditional Middle America values and sophisticated cosmopolitan values share very little overlap.
I know that you don't agree with me, but I hope that you at least understand from where I'm coming.