I can only tell you what I have learned through all of this. It does no good for me to get worked up or emotional about this topic because that doesn't do anyone any good. All I can do is let you in on what I have learned. I have sat in many doctors' offices and been told many things, as well as spent hundreds of hours reading and researching myself. These are the highlights:
* Autism is a spectrum disorder and each person diagnosed has their own individual set of symptoms.
* Autism IS genetic...doctors know this. Autism is ALSO triggered by something environmental...doctors know this as well. What they admittedly don't know is what that environmental trigger(s) is.
* Scientists have not proven that vaccines cause Autism, nor have they been able to disprove it.
* Vaccines have been proven to cause immunological disorders in some children, and even death. There has already been one lawsuit won in which it was proven that vaccines did indeed cause an immunological disorder which then did trigger autism in a child. Currently there is a massive class action lawsuit in the works.
* Vaccines are in place for the greater good, and they are definitely necessary. There is NO reason, however, that a child needs 36 vaccinations before the age of 3. It won't harm a child to spread them out and break them up. The binding agents used in multiple dose vaccines contain harmful ingredients that have been outlawed in many other countries.
Here is a link that I found very informative when I was doing my research. Each of the names offers research and evidence to support much of what I have said.
http://www.thoughtfulhouse.org/conference-presentations.htm
On a personal note...I vaccinated my twins right on schedule up until 15 months. Both of my children were healthy and on track with developmental milestones, and it was only my son that had a severe reaction to the MMR. He became very ill and then just didn't "snap out of it". All words were lost, eye contact lost, and smiles gone. He didn't respond to his name. He was diagnosed as autistic at 18 months. This lasted for well over a year, and after much research, diet alterations, and biomedical treatments he is now a typically developing 3 1/2 year old and no longer on the spectrum. I plan to resume vaccinations, one at a time, on both of my children at age 4.