That might be partly true, but the "states rights" mantra is also about race. There's no doubt about it. It's just an uncomfortable fact of history that is beyond dispute.
I don't doubt there's an infintesimally small group of college educated white dudes, who sit around sipping chardonnay, and concocting some benign theories of an egalitarian libertarian world of limited government and bootstraps. A world which has never really existed, and for which there's not a shred of evidence ever can, or will, exist.
But the fact is this "states rights" crap is code word, and it's linked to race and xenophobia. Why did Ron Paul attract the attention and support of Aryan Nation, the Klan, Stormfront, the Southern Citizen's Council, or whatever those fuckers call themselves? This isn't rocket science. The far-right libertarian brand attracts the aryans for the same reason the dixiecrats attracted the klan. And everyone know what the reason is. There's no way to put lipstick on a pig, and pretend this isn't reality. It's because states rights was and is code for keeping civil rights laws, the courts, and other communist institutions out of the business of southern states.
I agree that the national-security state and the confluence of government-corporations-and the military industrial complex is a grave threat to a democratic republic.
but, in reality, outside of the national security state, I have hardly any interaction with the federal government at all. And neither does anyone else. Outside of the national security state, There' s not a single person on the board who, in their day to day lives, experiences any interaction from the federal government. Other than old people who receive social security checks, or medicare, everything in our day to day lives is implmented at the state and local level.
The roads, the courts, the parks, the water systems, the electrical systems, the schools, the zoning laws, the property laws, the police, the fire service. 99.999% of everything that we interact with in the public domain is managed and implemented at the state and local level. Outside of the national security state (which I agree, needs to be dismantled), where exactly is this massive intrusion of federal government into our day to day lives? It isn't there. It's just a slogan, and a rhetorical device employed by the states rights crowd, and the crowd who want to do away with the New Deal, and return to the glory days of 1892.