Nope .. what I'll be telling you brother is that you're in serious need of a dictionary.
Go grab yourself one and see if a popular elected leader can be called a dictator.
.. get back to me.
Compact Oxford English Dictionary
dictator
• noun- a ruler with total power over a country.
The simplest definition is always the best.....
No need to thank me, but you could have looked it up yourself instead of me schooling you .....

http://www.askoxford.com/concise_oed/dictator?view=uk