She, apparently, flew off the handle because I asked her the question that damnyankeeman thinks the military should make a focal point for determining the fitness of a soldier. And she does so while defending damnyankeeman. That's completely illogical. I don't give a damn whether her brothers like BJs, her political ally does.
And I am sorry, but I don't really see the question as all that offensive. I don't really care a whole lot for locker room talk, but it is common among males and such a general question would not usually be seen as offensive. I get a little put off when people go in to too much detail, but a bj question is fairly tame in discussion that passes commonly between males.
Certainly, the question is not as offensive as if someone asked if you were gay. Biases against homosexuality are far greater than any bias one would face on the answer to BJs. I think, it's kind of weird to say no, but whatever works for you. I don't care.
This isn't a locker room. But since the guys on here treat it as such then they ought not to act like shocked pussies when a woman talks shit back at them.
You wanted to pipe in about my brothers in an irrelevent and crude manner to the discussion I merely made an equally crude and irrelevent come-back.