Seeing oneself as a victim is a prerequisite to join the GossipGrrrlsGang. Every last one of them has a deck of victim cards. Everything is someone else's fault. They never do anything spiteful, nasty, stalkerish, petty, cruel, vengeful, or mean -- they're pure as the driven (over) snow.
Notice how each of them finds some imaginary grievance to fixate on, to excuse their being asswipes?
For RB it's some supposed insult to his mom or dad or both.. For Toxic, it's her obsession with allegedly being doxed -- which she did to herself, as well as to other people. For Hawkeye it's the entire world being against him, and also it's his hated "WOKE" daughter. For Minty it's the existence of people of color. For COgoat it's the existence of women, particularly those who are smarter than he is, which is almost all of us. And it's also the existence of Phan and her tiny scraps of power for them all, as well. lol