Man so petrified that the sight of semi-naked Kim on TV makes him vomit

I am sure Tom is just repeating his same line of excuses, remember Tom, I have you on ignore per your request, so your replying to me is in vain, I don't read you, so shut up.

How convenient for you, so if you don't read what I say then why do you want me to shut up?
 
Actually, he has called Darla a cunt on several occasions, so you are wrong. I have asked him to quit and I am pretty sure others have as well, so his excuse that it is common in UK really doesn't matter to me and I fault him 100% that he can't control himself.

But it's fine if you guys continue to call him a rapist, huh?
I guess your hypocrisy will only allow you to go so far.
 
I am sure Tom is just repeating his same line of excuses, remember Tom, I have you on ignore per your request, so your replying to me is in vain, I don't read you, so shut up.

Then take your own advice and stop responding to what you think he's posting, you stupid twit.
 
Ah, no, I think you better read the threads, there were a lot of people surprised by Tom's remarks about women and rape. Super freak even remarked he would not leave family members alone with Tom.
Yes, and you'd also note I'm not exactly supportive of him on that, but I don't follow him around incessantly. Nor do any other non-AOLers.
 
Yes, and you'd also note I'm not exactly supportive of him on that, but I don't follow him around incessantly. Nor do any other non-AOLers.

Lol, he says stupid things and people comment on his stupid posts, isn't that the intent of a message board, incessantly is being a little over dramatic.
 
Ah, sure you do, Billy, you cared enough to bring it up! It isn't an AOL thing, Tom just has some really misguided ideas about rape and feminist.

Enjoy your weekend.

Misguided to you maybe, but they are shared by a number of women as well. They can see that rape culture is a manufactured concept designed to terrify and scare people into submission. I do not believe that 1 in 4 women are victims of rape, that is a bullshit stat that somebody pulled out of their arse and is now repeated ad nauseum. This article, written by a woman, sums it up perfectly.

“Rape is as American as apple pie,” says blogger Jessica Valenti. She and her sisters-in-arms describe our society as a “rape culture” where violence against women is so normal, it’s almost invisible. Films, magazines, fashion, books, music, humor, even Barbie — according to the activists — cooperate in conveying the message that women are there to be used, abused and exploited. Recently, rape-culture theory has migrated from the lonely corners of the feminist blogosphere into the mainstream. In January, the White House asserted that we need to combat campus rape by “[changing] a culture of passivity and tolerance in this country, which too often allows this type of violence to persist.”

On college campuses, obsession with eliminating “rape culture” has led to censorship and hysteria. At Boston University, student activists launched a petition demanding the cancellation of a Robin Thicke concert because the lyrics of his hit song “Blurred Lines” allegedly celebrate “systemic patriarchy and sexual oppression.” (The lyrics may not exactly be pleasant to many women, but song lyrics don’t turn men into rapists. Yet, ludicrously, the song has already been banned at more than 20 British universities.) Activists at Wellesley recently demanded that administrators remove a statue of a sleepwalking man: The image of a nearly naked male could “trigger” memories of sexual assault for victims. Meanwhile, a growing number of young men find themselves charged with rape, named publicly and brought before campus judicial panels informed by rape-culture theory. In such courts, due process is practically nonexistent: guilty because accused.

Rape-culture theorists dismiss critics who bring up examples of hysteria and false accusations as “rape denialists” and “rape apologists.” To even suggest that false accusations occur, according to activists, is to engage in “victim blaming.” But now, rape culturalists are confronting a formidable critic that even they will find hard to dismiss.

RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) is America’s largest and most influential anti-sexual-violence organization. It’s the leading voice for sexual-assault victim advocacy. Indeed, rape-culture activists routinely cite the authority of RAINN to make their case. But in RAINN’s recent recommendations to the White House Task Force to Protect Students from Sexual Assault, it repudiates the rhetoric of the anti–”rape culture” movement:
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In the last few years, there has been an unfortunate trend towards blaming “rape culture” for the extensive problem of sexual violence on campus. While it is helpful to point out the systemic barriers to addressing the problem, it is important not to lose sight of a simple fact: Rape is caused not by cultural factors but by the conscious decisions, of a small percentage of the community, to commit a violent crime.
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RAINN urges the White House to “remain focused on the true cause of the problem” and suggests a three-pronged approach for combating rape: empowering community members through bystander intervention education, using “risk-reduction messaging” to encourage students to increase their personal safety and promoting clearer education on “where the ‘consent line’ is.” It also asserts that we should treat rape like the serious crime it is by giving power to trained law enforcement rather than internal campus judicial boards.

RAINN is especially critical of the idea that we need to focus on teaching men not to rape — the hallmark of rape-culture activism. Since rape exists because our culture condones and normalizes it, activists say, we can end the epidemic of sexual violence only by teaching boys not to rape.
No one would deny that we should teach boys to respect women. But by and large, this is already happening. By the time men reach college, RAINN explains, “most students have been exposed to 18 years of prevention messages, in one form or another.” The vast majority of men absorb these messages and view rape as the horrific crime that it is. So efforts to address rape need to focus on the very small portion of the population that “has proven itself immune to years of prevention messages.” They should not vilify the average guy.

By blaming so-called rape culture, we implicate all men in a social atrocity, trivialize the experiences of survivors, and deflect blame from the rapists truly responsible for sexual violence. RAINN explains that the trend of focusing on rape culture “has the paradoxical effect of making it harder to stop sexual violence, since it removes the focus from the individual at fault, and seemingly mitigates personal responsibility for his or her own actions.

”Moral panic over “rape culture” helps no one — least of all, survivors of sexual assault. College leaders, women’s groups and the White House have a choice. They can side with the thought police of the feminist blogosphere who are declaring war on Robin Thicke, the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition, male statues and Barbie. Or they can listen to the sane counsel of RAINN.

http://time.com/30545/its-time-to-end-rape-culture-hysteria/
 
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