Yes it is what it's about and no it's not a strawman.
I've been dealing with NIMBY's and the associated problems for almost 30 years. When you're dealing with NIMBY's you have to accept several things and work within those parameters or your just blowing smoke.
They have property rights. Just like freedom of speech, religion, the right to bear arms, etc., those are sacred constitutionally protected rights and in a free market, capitalist economy they should be.
When you're working on a development project, and I don't care if it's real estate, a hazardous waste landfill, a petroleum refinery, an animal rendering plant, a waste water treatment plant, a Part B Hazardous Waste TSDF, a strip joint, a waste incinerator, etc., near any residential community you will be dealing with zoning restrictions and political coalitions from those affected communities and those people and communities have specific rights. You can demonize them all you want with inane divisive non sense like "intergenerational whatever" and your just blowing smoke.
If you don't recognize those rights and work with those affected communities in regards to their concerns your likely hood of prevailing are slim to none. That leaves you with little choice but to either go do business elsewhere or build a political coalition strong enough to trump their rights.