My 2nd wife's daughter married a guy from Michigan!.
I liked the man, but he was racist as all hell, always using the N-word.
I asked why he was so angry, He said, "Hey, I grew up in Michigan"!
I met his parents at a family get-together at my house as a welcome to the family and Dallas after they moved here, and they were as racist as he was, and his step-father was one of the most hateful White men I ever knew.
His step-dad got drunk and started talking politics, got up and started threatening me, called me a nigger-lover, and home wrecker, and said he didn't see what my wife saw in me. I had just met the man an hour earlier.
I had just gone through a world-wide lay-off at Texas Instruments. The man got angry when I told him I was a Democrat, and I asked him to not discuss politics at our family event. He had the nerve to tell me as a guest in my home, "If you were any good at what you were doing they wouldn't have fired you"!
I said, that's it, YOU NEED TO LEAVE!
He left with my step-Daughter and my son-in law, and my step-daughter refused to ever come around me again, and it created a divide in our family. My 12 year marriage never recovered after that and ended in a divorce a few months later.
I came home from work one day, and I noticed all my wife's things were missing. I found a note that said, "I love you but, I love my daughter and my Grand baby too, and I must be with them now"!
Never saw or heard from her again! I never even trued to contact her! I figured if she never came back or called, we didn't have anything much anyway! Before hre daughter tried to separate us, we had never even had an argument, and I thought our marriage was great!
But nobody talks to me in my own home like that! Someone who didn't know a fucking thing about me that I just met.