I don't get it and never will. There have been multiple members in here that I used to battle it out with on the daily but when REAL LIFE situations happened to them like a death of a loved one, extreme sickness in the family, ect ect,...all those former battles didn't matter to me anymore. Instead I PMed them and told them how sorry I was to hear about their loss, or the troubles they were going thru. And the truth is....I MEANT EVERY WORD OF IT. Now,...I know they would never admit that those PM's happened, .....and I wouldn't want them too as PMs should remain private which is why I would never ever name anyone. But I tell ya,........this whole thing is just so disheartening. People have to be better,.....some of the things that go on in here are just so sick and twisted. No honor, no shame, not even having the good sense and decency that there is a time and place for everything,....starting to think that there are more than a few in here that have already been " given up and given over". I don't think some even know what that means, or specifically means for their own lives and just how bad it is. They are totally lost and have no clue. Like I say,....very disheartening.