Straight couple who remarries has the potential of procreation, the lesbian couple does not. And if a married lesbian becomes pregnant, her lesbian lover has no relation to the child. No obligation to suport the child. Whereas the remarried husbands wife were to become pregnant, he is obligated to support those children.
Marriage ONLY creates paternal rights and obligations in the case of a man married to a woman. Gays want all the goodies that go along with marriage without ever being subjected to the parental obligations created by marriage between heterosexuals.
Oh, so the gov't gives benefits because there is a CHANCE of procreation, but doesn't withhold the benefits when there is no chance of procreation in a straight couple. But it does withhold the benefits from gay couples when there is no chance of procreation, and even does so when there is procreation because one of the parents has no biological ties to the child?
That is some pretty convoluted rationalization there.
And the last line about wanting the goodies without the responsibilities? That is the fault of the system that does not allow them to marry and have BOTH members of the relationship be the legal parents of the child.
You see, if one person adopts a child, the only way another person can be listed as a legal parent is if those two parents are married. So your convoluted rationalization is the reason that gays do not gain the added responsibilities of parenthood.
And studies have shown time and again that children raised by gay parents are the same as children raised by straight parents.
So if, as you claim, the gov't sanctions & rewards marriage strictly because of procreation, then those gays who procreate (or adopt) should be allowed to marry. And those straight couples who cannot procreate (and do not adopt) should not receive those benefits.
Or is there some reason we shouldn't do that?