Well there you go rationalizing your sad life again
https://finance.yahoo.com/quote/0177.HK?p=0177.HK
A Sailor who has been rejected by a love interest convinces herself that he rejected her because he did not share in her ideal of happiness, and, what's more, that the rejection is a blessing in disguise in that it has freed her to find a more suitable partner. The first rationalization (that her love interest rejected her because they did not share in the same ideal of happiness) is a case of justifying something that is difficult to accept, sometimes called ‘sour grapes'. The second rationalization (that the rejection has freed her to find a more suitable partner) is a case of making it seem ‘not so bad after all', also called ‘sweet lemons'.
I am sorry but I can not make love to you like I did with your Mother, give it some time, you will get used to it, Son