Did they give him gold stars, koolaid and cookies too? I bet you were proud! And I bet thousands of proud parents feel exactly the same as you about their kid. My daughter also graduated top of her class, but I am intelligent enough to realize, if she had to compete with a Japanese student who also graduated top of his class in Japan, she would probably pale in comparison. We've established a very low bar for "excellence" in education, so it's no great feat that your son or my daughter were at the top of their class, and it doesn't mean they got the best education money could buy, or that they are necessarily "smart!" We think they are, because we are parents, and because the "school" has given them accolades, and we look at the GPAs and gold stars, and it seems impressive to us, as proud parents.. but what does it mean, really?
Look at the overall numbers, look at how our kids are faring compared with the Japanese... realize that we are failing our children by adopting this passive attitude about the education system, which is not doing an adequate job of educating. The choice is to keep dumping our tax money into this liberally insane system, or adopt some new system, where we control the level and quality of education with our purse strings.