The entire point of being a sovereign nation--whether it be America, Iran, or anybody else--is that other nations don't dictate what you can have or build within your own borders. The Iran war is unprovoked offensive aggression by Trump, just like the invasion of the Ukraine was unprovoked offensive aggression by Trump's hero, Putin. Both criminal actions damaged our NATO allies, but Trump supporters don't value that very valuable alliance.
You clearly believe in American exceptionalism to the point where the global community should excuse America from its global responsibilities of behavior. That, by my values, constitutes "heinously immoral standards." America is just one of 195 recognized sovereign nations, and it's far from being one of the most progressive and modern. It's the most militarily powerful and has the biggest albeit unfairly distributed economy, but those strengths are quickly drying up after the successful MAGA assault on what was our democratic republic.
Surely we can agree that our values have minimal if any overlap.