Gay and lesbian couples deserve the same rights afforded to any married couple

Change never comes, or at least never begins, in Washington.

It begins with acts of compassion, and sometimes defiance, across America.

It begins when ordinary people, out of love for a mother or a father, son or daughter, or husband or wife, speak out against injustices that have been accepted for too long and it begins when these impositions of conscience start opening hearts that had been closed, and when we finally see each other’s humanity, whatever our differences.

Now, this struggle is as old as America itself.

It’s never been easy, but, I am hopeful.

One year ago, we marked the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall protests.

Some of you may remember that I pledged then that even at a time when we faced enormous challenges both on the economy and in our foreign policy, that we would not put aside matters of basic equality, and we haven’t.

We’ve got a lot of hard work that we still have to do, but we can already point to extraordinary progress that we’ve made over the past year on behalf of Americans who are gay and lesbian, bisexual and transgender.

Just stay with me here for a second.

Last year, I met with Judy Shepard, Matthew Shepard’s mom, and I promised her that after a decade’s-long struggle, we would pass inclusive hate crimes legislation.

I promised that in the name of her son we would ensure that the full might of the law is brought down on those who would attack somebody just because they are gay, and less than six months later, with Judy by my side, we marked the enactment of the Matthew Shepard Act.

It’s now the law of the land.

I met with Janice Langbehn and her children, and when Janice’s partner of 18 years, Lisa, suddenly collapsed because of an aneurysm, Janice and the couple’s three kids were denied the chance to comfort their partner and their mom, barred from Lisa’s bedside.

It was wrong.

It was cruel, and in part because of their story, I instructed my Secretary of Health and Human Services, Kathleen Sebelius, to make sure that any hospital that’s participating in Medicare or Medicaid, that means most hospitals, allow gay and lesbian partners the same privileges and visitation rights as straight partners.

After I issued that memorandum, I called Janice and I told her the news, and I wanted to make sure that I had followed up.

Secretary Sebelius will officially be proposing this regulation, and I can also announce that the Secretary has sent a letter asking these hospitals to adopt these changes now, even before the rule takes effect.

Nothing can undo the hurt that Janice’s family has experienced, and nothing can undo the pain felt by countless others who’ve been through a similar ordeal, for example, Charlene Strong lost her wife, Kate Fleming, and Charlene said on behalf of all mothers, thank you, because we think it’s the right thing to do.


In addition, I’ve issued an executive order to extend as many partnership benefits to gay and lesbian federal employees as possible under current law, and I’m going to continue to fight to change the law, to guarantee gay federal employees the exact same benefits as straight employees, including access to health insurance and retirement plans, and the Department of Labor made clear that under the Family and Medical Leave Act, same-sex couples, as well as others raising children, are to be treated like the caretakers that they are.

Because I believe that committed gay and lesbian couples deserve the same rights and responsibilities afforded to any married couple in this country, I have called for Congress to repeal the so-called Defense of Marriage Act.

We are pushing hard to pass an inclusive employee non-discrimination bill.

No one in America should be fired because they’re gay.

It’s not right, it’s not who we are as Americans, and we are going to put a stop to it, and finally, we’re going to end “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”.

That is a promise I made as a candidate.

It is a promise that I reiterated as President.

It’s one that this administration is going to keep.

Now, the only way to lock this in, the only way to get the votes in Congress to roll back this policy, is if we work with the Pentagon, who are in the midst of two wars, and that’s why we were gratified to see, for the first time ever, the Secretary of Defense, Bob Gates, testify in favor of repeal, and the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, Mike Mullen, has repeatedly and passionately argued for allowing gay men and women to serve honestly in the military.

We know that forcing gay and lesbian soldiers to live a lie or to leave the military, that doesn’t contribute to our security, it harms our security, and thanks to Patrick Murphy and others, for the first time in history, the House has passed a repeal that would allow gay men and women to openly serve in our armed forces, and this repeal is authored so that the Pentagon can complete its review of the policy, which is critical, by the way, not only to passage, but it’s also critical to making sure that the change is accepted and implemented effectively.

In the Senate, the Armed Services Committee has approved repeal for the first time, and the full body is poised to vote soon.

So here’s the bottom line.

We have never been closer to ending this discriminatory policy, and I’m going to keep on fighting until that bill is on my desk and I can sign it.

This is a reminder that we all have an obligation to ensure that no young person is ever made to feel worthless or alone, ever.

Of course, it does depend on all of us.

It depends on the efforts of government and the activism of ordinary citizens like yourselves.

It depends on the love of families and the support of communities, and I want you all to know that as this work continues, I’m going to be standing shoulder-to-shoulder with you, fighting by your side every step of the way.

So, thank you. God bless you. God bless the United States of America.
 
uh....do you have a link....your thread title is contrary to what obama has actually said...he does not support gay marriage
 
Well Mr. President, I would strongly suggest you speak to those on the idiot left, and instruct them to get off this silly notion of changing the definition of marriage, if you think gay couples deserve the same benefits as straight couples. Because what is happening is, people like me, who are moderate enough to support some kind of Civil Unions idea, are becoming very frustrated with the tone and tenor of this continued idiot idea of Gay Marriage, and you're about to completely lose any support I have for Civil Unions or anything else. They are polarizing those who could make equality of benefits a reality, because they want to hijack a religious institution, for nothing more than the sake of hurling shit in the face of religion, and I will not stand for that in America.
 
Well Mr. President, I would strongly suggest you speak to those on the idiot left, and instruct them to get off this silly notion of changing the definition of marriage, if you think gay couples deserve the same benefits as straight couples. Because what is happening is, people like me, who are moderate enough to support some kind of Civil Unions idea, are becoming very frustrated with the tone and tenor of this continued idiot idea of Gay Marriage, and you're about to completely lose any support I have for Civil Unions or anything else. They are polarizing those who could make equality of benefits a reality, because they want to hijack a religious institution, for nothing more than the sake of hurling shit in the face of religion, and I will not stand for that in America.

The definition of marriage used to be whites with whites, black with black, brown with brown, etc.; but society survived that change and it will survive when the change allows for same sex marriages also.

You're just going to have to accept it, even if you don't agree with it.
 
Removing the gov't from the entire institution of marriage would be the best proactive move to prevent anything from being forced by the courts.

Of course, when people lose the marital benefits they might complain.
 
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