There's a lot here and definitely much disagreement. I'm not sure you listed any real examples of agreeing with the right, but if you think you do, that's your call. My point is, most of your party isn't up for debate anymore. If you actually agree with the right on something, you're out in the woods with no one to back you up. That's not a dig, just a sad truth.
Like I said, your positions scream Democrat, a party that's lost its grip on reality. I predict they'll keep pushing away supporters unless someone with common sense, broad appeal, and enough guts to call out the craziness of the new faces running the show steps up. They need to lay out a vision that's not straight-up communism, one that leads with ideas different from Republicans but still respects the Constitution and aligns with what most of their voters want.
Again, a healthy two-party system matters. Right now, the Democrats are so far gone and corrupt, if they got power, they'd rig the game to never lose again, turning us into another communist disaster like every other time it's been tried. If you think your party's still capable of real debate, you're being naive. Just keeping it real.
Not long ago, if you asked any Democrat if they loved this country, supported the Constitution, and backed free-market capitalism, you'd get a firm yes every time. That's what being part of a country means. You support it, love it enough to fight for it, and work to improve it, not tear it down, condemn it, or try to transform it instead of reform it.
Your mention of the Electoral College shows where you're at on understanding our system of government. It's either ignorance or worse. If you know what scrapping the Electoral College would do to our system and still want to change it, you're in the wrong country, try France. Good thing it's hard to change by design. Our founders knew people like you would come along, sore losers blaming the Electoral College for their losses, trying to convince folks to ditch it. Your idea isn't new. It's a tired argument born from ignorance or bad intentions.
It's great you think you can bridge the left and right but saying it doesn't make it true. Give me one example of something Trump has done that you agree with. No buts, ifs, or almost. He's done plenty most sane Americans can get behind. Let's start there, and please spare me the anecdotal stories, I know it's a favorite 'debate' technique of the left, but it's not productive, it's almost always a waste of time that deflects from the actual argument thinking that some real or made-up story about the exceptions or the expectational should drive the debate. Just to be clear, I or nobody I know is against immigration, it's illegal immigration we are against, something I'm really get sick of, morons or straight up liars conflate the two, usually intentionally, knowing they're very different.
And let's move away from your dream of turning our representative republic into a democracy, which would gut the core of our brilliant system. Bring it down to something smaller, like no men in women's sports. That's an 80/20 issue Democrats ignore their voters on, pushing this insanity. Can you say you agree with Republicans on this and think Democrats have lost their minds?
I suspect you can't, but if you do, you will further alienate yourself from your current mess of a party and will get no quarter here from your compadres, which is my whole point. Your party is brain dead and spiraling into disaster, at least in the short term.