I don't like the abortion as birth control thing either, but the alternative is women bearing children that they don't want
and babies being born unwanted.
To me, speaking for myself, those things are even more offensive. Substantially.
In the end, it all goes back to whether one values life in absolute or qualitative terms.
I have neither instinct nor intuition for the former. The latter comes naturally to me,
but people are not all the same.
I'm not trying to convince anybody, however.
I wish that we could all live in places where the mores were compatible with us.
Our present polarity makes domestic tranquility inconceivable in our lifetimes.