The most important part is give yourself a chance!
When young ,I was very shy about asking women out!
Hell twice I had girls ask me out and was to shy to say yes.
I was never shy about asking women out. When on the rare occasion I was "Shot Down In Flames," I just moved on to another. Lots of "fish in the sea,' as they say.
In my younger days, I almost always said yes when a woman asked me out. Every one you turn down is one you'll never have the opportunity with again.

