ilearned birds and bees and sexual intercourse, I was not subjected to questioning my gender.
Of course I thought about it a little bit, but was attracted to girls by the time I was in 2 or 3rd grade and that was that.
I would not have wanted adults to introduce "gender identity" - let the kids think about this unmolested-
They'll speak up if they feel confused. Dont make them that way
In other words you were confused.