How can they insure that their kid doesn't read gay pedo porn in school if it's available in the library?
How can they ensure that at all? It hear it is readily available on the interwebs for free and in HD if that is what they are interested in.
How can they insure that their kid doesn't read gay pedo porn in school if it's available in the library?
How can they ensure that at all? It hear it is readily available on the interwebs for free and in HD if that is what they are interested in.
Parents have a right to determine what their child reads; but, they do not have the right to determine what other children read.
They can't. But it's not taxpayer funded on the "interwebs for free".
How can an Atheist ensure that their kid doesn't learn about Christmas? How can a Buddhist ensure they are not exposed to stupid beliefs in sky daddies?
How can an Atheist ensure that their kid doesn't learn about Christmas? How can a Buddhist ensure they are not exposed to stupid beliefs in sky daddies? Sounds a bit like the government trying to control which of the moral codes gets to pick the books in the library... possibly a violation of 1st Amendment. I mean, we all had to read that gay fiction called The Great Gatsby... (if you don't think that the main character was gay, read it now that I've said that, you'll see it).
A Buddhist wouldn't care. Exposure to other religions and ideas is just fine with us, not that we're going to buy into it, but listening to others and their ideas is something a Buddhist would do.
My mother had no right nor capability to control what I read. She is an uber-Christian too... I never even had her try to limit what I read.. seriously, never.
My mother had no right nor capability to control what I read. She is an uber-Christian too... I never even had her try to limit what I read.. seriously, never.
That is good, but some states and school districts are now objecting to and removing books from school libraries due to parental objections.
Do you think parents should allow young children to view pornography on the internet?
I get they don't like that their kid might read a book entitled Gender Queer, I can even understand why they may be upset about it, but the reality is kids almost never grab a book like that in their school library. Those that actually check out books from their school library get books that are fun to read, not boring AF books like Gender Queer..
I think parents should understand that if they want to get to it they will, and pretending otherwise is just ignoring reality. Prepare them for what they will see, don't try to control it, the tighter that grip goes the more sand slips through the fingers and the more the child will simply do it and then keep it secret.
Was gay pedo porn available in your school's library, and if so, did she know about it?
How is it "reality"? Do you have statistical evidence regarding the number of times those titles were checked out by kids?
If not, how do you know kids think those kinds of books are "boring AF"?
We don't fundamentally disagree, BTW.
I believe that taxpayer-funded education is indefensible, unacceptable and undesirable at any level because it is a state-sponsored and controlled apparatus that government has no right to be involved in.
There were fictional books that some folks even found that described sex in their various forms available in the school library. Would you consider it porn? I don't know. But yeah, curious kids could find that subject in the library even in the late 80s... Shoot in Junior High we had Billy who had an incredible capacity for finding it, he would mark the pages with paper clips... frickin' weird kid he was.
"They're going to do it anyway"?![]()
You didn't answer the questions that you were asked.
Do you have statistical information on that, you demand what you have not provided and expect that to mean something special?
Do you have any memory of the books you checked out of the library at that time?
Do you even think kids check out books from their libraries at the same level we did when books were about the only way we had to get reading material? Seriously, do you pay any attention to the advance of technology in the world today?
Since your life experience leads you to believe that every kid will check out Gender Queer and read it voraciously, I need some backup stats that show you have a point.
That isn't what I said, so this is a simple straw man argument. While I get why you go there, it simply means that I am getting to you, I know, it's frustrating when a civil libertarian gets into a conversation about the 1st Amendment and why you don't get to control what books go in a government library... because you know they are right.
I think parents should understand that if they want to get to it they will, and pretending otherwise is just ignoring reality. Prepare them for what they will see, don't try to control it, the tighter that grip goes the more sand slips through the fingers and the more the child will simply do it and then keep it secret.