There's a famous line from Nietzsche, the great German philosopher, in one of his books. In this book a seeker of wisom (a young man) meets a very old women. The little, old woman tells him she has a great truth to tell him. He asks what is it, and she says...
"If you go to women, do not forget your whip."
The "whip" is metaphorical, of course.
But what the little old women, says is, indeed, a great truth !!
That is...
Women have no respect for men who are unable to keep them in line. They like men to take firm, decisive control of any relationship that they are in. Women like to have men that firm boundaries for their behaviour in marriage or a long-term intimate partnership. If they cross the boundary lines, they expect their man to discipline them - to "crack the whip" as severely as is warranted. Ain't that right, Black Cat ?!!
The most disasterous relationships I ever had with women, were with "liberated" women who had been sucked in by the rhetoric of the feminist movement. I thought to myself OK, the times have changed (i was young and naive in the late 70's and 80's), now women want to fully independent and draw the boundaries for their own behaviour in the relationship, fine. Now, they don't want to have men telling them what they should and shouldn't do, fine; women now don't want men to think that they are emotionally fragile, or in need of protection from the ugly shit that goes down in life, and so on. I guess I'll have to play along - because the world's changed now. WRONG Pandering to women who had been brainwashed by feminist ideas not only gave me a lot of serious grief, the great irony was that it gave them even more - but they had no insight the problem .
They had no insight because when you pump leftist crap like feminist theory into the heads of young girls (aged 18 to 22) at university for 3-4 years, it "programs" their thinking, because it is actually designed to do that. The feminist curricula/pedagogy make use of psychological "tools" that transform (liberal-type) education into indoctrination. (If you don't believe me, and you think this is all BS, - just ask someone who's worked for the CIA, if ever you get a chance) And once you've been properly indoctrinated, you're fucked; the only way to get your head straight again is through professional re-programming and that can be very fucking expensive and take quite a long time.
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