Some good points..If you really want to discuss, why don't YOU provide examples for people to discuss?
The reason people don't always agree is that some people (like YOU) run around screaming racism every time a disagreement involves people of different ethnicity.
It is also a subjective term based on individual points of view. Some things are going to be blatant, where the vast majority would agree. Others are more subtle and you get varied opinions.
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Ppl used to say something like "you'll know it, when it happens to you", but maybe that isn't as true as it once was??
Racism of one sort or another does seem to be a catch all for many things...
Sometimes you just can't win: you voted for trump or Obama you're a fuckin racist, you didn't vote for Obama or trump, you're a fuckin racist..

Some folks are chill & just don't let shit/non-shit bother them, a few are hypersensitive & everything bothers them...
Ppl are ppl, & that isn't necessarily always a good thing.. Que sera sera
Either of their observations could be correct or totally wrong for all we know......... 
