ThatOwlWoman
Not Nice
That's not an "albatross", though it is annoying, it's just not enough to be a real issue....that being said, I'm sure she's willing to do whatever it takes"...as her attorney announced...
I would think her therapist would advise against it..
We know you're the forum's foremost authority on everything, Toxic, but I suspect you're wrong about that. Therapists often encourage clients to confront their abusers, to force them to own what happened, in order to find peace and closure.
Aren't you going to do your usual Attack The Victim schtick now? She was asking for it, she was wearing a bathing suit. She shouldn't have been there. She was probably drunk. Those boys were just having fun. Etc.