There is also a huge difference between two 16-yr-olds having sex with each other, and a 37-year-old going for a 16-yo-old. The first is unwise and foolish; the second is predatory. Hear that, Roy Moore?
As for the fallacy that males can't "feel sexually abused as teenagers".... well, apparently Jack and the RC Church are the only ones who seem to believe that. Hear that, all you teachers who have been sent to prison for doing that with your students?
There's also a huge difference between males and females.
I always find it interesting how women want to control the sex lives of teen boys.
Oh good. I was afraid that pop-up book about sex I sent you got lost in the mail.
I hadn't noticed that we did. What I *have* noticed is that responsible, caring parents discuss with both their sons and their daughters the aspects of acting on their hormonal desires at a young age, the downfalls, the good parts, and provide them not only with factual information, but the knowledge and means to prevent pregnancy and STDs. It does no good to forbid them to have sex; that's never worked in the history of the world. Responsible, caring parents are also vigilant that their teens are not preyed upon by older people who should be looking for partners in their own age cohort, not at emotionally and psychologically immature kids. By "parents" I mean both mom and dad, of course. You seem to want to blame women for statutory rape laws. Why is that?
Hadn't you noticed that until very recently, most legislatures were composed almost entirely of males?
We've had our little discussions before. And I agree with your above statements. The problem I'm seeing is that women keep insisting that 'boys' are being 'sexually abused', when the 'boys' in question ... don't feel 'abused'. Now, no matter how many times these 'boys' claim they DIDN'T feel 'abused', WOMEN will insist they have been.
I point out that First World countries like Germany and Italy have a 'Age of Consent' law that is 14 years old. Somehow, that flies over the head of our American Puritans here. American women, not all but many, seem fixated on this. I'm not sure why?
I can't tell you how many girls/women have told me their first time was with an 'older' person. That they deliberately and consciously sought out an older, experienced male to 'teach' them. It made complete sense to me.
The original discussion between me and Rana was over the Italian actress Asia Argento and a 17 year old. In her native country, the young guy was just another young guy to have sex with. The young guy probably felt great having an older woman take an interest in him. Neither of them felt 'abused'.
Rana calls 18 year olds 'children'. Probably completely unaware these 'children' become soldiers and go out and kill people.
So, one guy's anecdotal experience. 13. She's 26, the aunt of a friend of mine, black. I did not lose my virginity, I was dying to give it away. It was wonderful. We kept it up for over 4 years.
Yes, absolutely, they will range in age from 40-80. I love older men, always have, I find them to be more sophisticated and I want great conversation, not just a pretty face. I was thinking of Sam Sheppard, Richard Gere, Pierce Brosnan, Denzel, Lawrence Fishburn.(tapping finger on Desk)
Gee, who started that 'Cabana Boy' thread? Was it Phantasmal, Christie, Owl? Hmmmmm ... how they all relished the thought of having 'Coconut lotion' spread all over their aging skin for it's rejuvenating effects. (Just hoping to Jesus, for Rana's sake, that all these 'Boys' were all over 25)
Boys do feel abused.There's also a huge difference between males and females.
I know it's not PC to state this, but males and females are different.
Males don't feel 'sexually abused' when females (older) have sex with them (as teens). They aren't penetrated, they don't get pregnant, and they always climax.
I always find it interesting how women want to control the sex lives of teen boys.
Just because they send 18 year olds to war doesn’t mean they are mentally prepared for the experience, that’s why I’ve always thought the older men should go to war and the young males should stay home to grow up and have a life.We've had our little discussions before. And I agree with your above statements. The problem I'm seeing is that women keep insisting that 'boys' are being 'sexually abused', when the 'boys' in question ... don't feel 'abused'. Now, no matter how many times these 'boys' claim they DIDN'T feel 'abused', WOMEN will insist they have been.
I point out that First World countries like Germany and Italy have a 'Age of Consent' law that is 14 years old. Somehow, that flies over the head of our American Puritans here. American women, not all but many, seem fixated on this. I'm not sure why?
I can't tell you how many girls/women have told me their first time was with an 'older' person. That they deliberately and consciously sought out an older, experienced male to 'teach' them. It made complete sense to me.
The original discussion between me and Rana was over the Italian actress Asia Argento and a 17 year old. In her native country, the young guy was just another young guy to have sex with. The young guy probably felt great having an older woman take an interest in him. Neither of them felt 'abused'.
Rana calls 18 year olds 'children'. Probably completely unaware these 'children' become soldiers and go out and kill people.
Yes, absolutely, they will range in age from 40-80. I love older men, always have, I find them to be more sophisticated and I want great conversation, not just a pretty face. I was thinking of Sam Sheppard, Richard Gere, Pierce Brosnan, Denzel, Lawrence Fishburn.
I always talk to people, I find it expands my universe.hahaha ... wait a minute! All you talked about was 'having Coconut lotion applied to your body' by 'Cabana boys'. There wasn't any discussion of 'conversation'. (Don't even try to weasel out of that!)
Boys do feel abused.
Lol, no they don’t always climax, they do get pregnant, they just don’t carry the baby, it’s their sperm, this is part of the problem with out of wedlock pregnancies, males feel it is not their problem. They can also be penetrated. I suggest you have someone tell you about the birds and the bees.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.ps...-about-sex/201203/mens-secret-sex-problem?amp
https://1in6.org/get-information/myths/
Just because they send 18 year olds to war doesn’t mean they are mentally prepared for the experience, that’s why I’ve always thought the older men should go to war and the young males should stay home to grow up and have a life.
I always talk to people, I find it expands my universe.
You’re also trying to speak for all males, sorry Jack, you can’t do that.Rana: "Boys do feel abused."
Jack: No, they don't. (This would be like ME telling YOU how girls feel)
Rana: "no they don’t always climax,"
Jack: Yes, they do. (This would be like ME telling YOU that girls always climax)
Raba: "they do get pregnant"
Jack: Physically impossible. (See the benefits of having sex with an older woman)
Rana: "They can also be penetrated."
Jack: If the older woman donned a strap-on, I'm pretty sure the kid would leave.
You have your opinion when people should legally fuck, that's fine. I'm just pointing out that the age is an ARBITRARY number, depending on where you happen to be standing on the Planet.
That males and females are DIFFERENT. Boys climax, girls don't (probably the biggest difference), girls get penetrated and it hurts, boys don't, girls get pregnant, boys don't.
Like I said, I find it interesting why American women (not all) are so furious when it comes to an older woman with a teen boy.
Yes, absolutely, they will range in age from 40-80. I love older men, always have, I find them to be more sophisticated and I want great conversation, not just a pretty face. I was thinking of Sam Sheppard, Richard Gere, Pierce Brosnan, Denzel, Lawrence Fishburn.
You’re right, it is absolutely none of your business and extra super creepy that you ask or care.Well, Rana. I'm thinking if you want the 'Cabana boys' applying Coconut lotion to your naked body as the sound of the surf rolls in, that 'talking' would ruin the 'moment'.
(Certainly none of my business, and of course, you don't have to answer this, but, ... when you have sex, do you carry on a conversation with your husband during the entire ordeal?)
You’re also trying to speak for all males, sorry Jack, you can’t do that.
Obviously, you didn’t bother to read the links that show there are some males who do feel abused and some males that don’t climax.
Remain steeped in your ignorance, it’s no reflection on me.
I point out that First World countries like Germany and Italy have a 'Age of Consent' law that is 14 years old. Somehow, that flies over the head of our American Puritans here. American women, not all but many, seem fixated on this. I'm not sure why?