Maybe but Im 41 years old, happy as can be.. my family and I have never been a victim of violent crime. We have never been hungry or gone without... So something is working.
Thats also explains your attitude and narrow minded view.....
If you or a member of your immediate family, had been the victim of any crime...especially one of violence...you'd see issues in a new light
If you had ever gone hungry or couldn't feed your children, your attitudes about thousands of things would change....
You might even PREPARE for being the victim of a crime before the fact.....look over your shoulder more often....maybe even carry a gun.....
or you'd save a little extra every payday should the time come when you'd have to make sure your kids had enough to eat.....
Would you call that living in fear or preparing for living....?