I appreciate that brother.
You and I should find a better way to talk to each other.
I sincerly hope for the safe return of your nephew.
We don't have to agree or be nice when our views are so polarized.
We should however remember the common thread of humanity; your daughter is lovely, smart, and brave, you have every right to be proud and thankful.
Both of my nephews were/are MI. One Air Force (he's home) the other is Army and likely headed for Afganistan, thanks for the kind regard.