Chuck (10-11-2019)
Chuck (10-11-2019)
Cancel 2020.2 (10-11-2019)
you guys are retarded, and trying to make yurt a cuck. He literally has nothing to do with this person. She's a stranger.
I understand if he was around a while as like a stepdad or something. Or even if she was just an estranged child where he left right after she was born or something. Obv in that scenario you could get to know her and maybe help her. That's fine. But... lots of people in this thread have ex girlfriends that moved on with their lives and started families and none of that has anything to do with you. Should everyone start contacting the daugther of all their high school sweethearts? that's basically what you are advocating. Yurt has nothing to do with this woman in any way shape or form. Based on what yurt has said in this thread so far, she's a complete random, and honestly it's not doing anyone any favors if yurt tries to play surrogate dad to this person. I don't know, the whole thing just seems really weird.
WTF?
Surrogate dad?
What is wrong with you? Hypothetically I need another kid, who is an adult, so fucking what if I want to help this person related to my past? She knows her mom is not a good person, her father is a massive loser and she comes to me for help.
Am I a loser if I want to help her? Am I loser of I don't want to help her? Should I just ignore her and maybe she becomes a poor loser without anyone helping her?
AGAIN, she has NOT ASKED FOR MONEY, just ADVICE given my education and profession.
If it goes beyond that, I should be concerned.
But at this very point, am I doing wrong!!?
well she may get the wrong idea of you. it's really weird, you have nothing to do with her.
why help her as opposed to anyone else, just because she's the daughter of your ex wife? You didn't raise her, you never knew her, she's not your kid. She has no more relation or purpose to you than my college girlfriends kid.
If you just want to help a stranger for no reason other than the goodness and kindness of your heart, sure, go for it. But you wouldn't be doing it to any random woman, and I just don't see how her being the daughter of your ex wife has much to do with you
Also I would normally not be butting in to such a personal thing going on in someones life, but your thread directly solicited peoples opinions on the matter, so that's what mine is.
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