Since rule 12b is the most often broken rule especially for newbies (or say a mod says), it would be nice to get some clarification. This is not about questioning moderator action or bashing anyone just a clarification.

A poster says no one wants to see your penis, think of the children.

How is this not a rule 12b violation?

A poster accuses another of getting a hard on for asking if someone was talking about flashing children.

How is this not a rule 12b violation?