Originally Posted by
leaningright
Yes sir. I guess I’m worthy of that “Believerism” label. I am fortunate to have traveled several places around the world, am immensely interested in learning about life in others. Form my travels and my learning there is no other nation, generally and no other place, specifically that I’d rather live. So it’s that “If we're all in the place that fits us the most comfortably, we're doing equally well, right?”
I have seen the American dream play out too many times to discount it, for my own family to those living around me.
My Choctaw grandmother raised 11 children (8 boys 3 girls) of her own. She was the second wife of my grandfather who had fathered 10 children by his first wife. He lost her and several of his young children in the flu epidemic in the early 1900’s. Grandma was swindled out of her tribal allotment by the (white) local grocer. She lost 150 acres over a $50 grocery bill. Talking about it years later she just said, “We had to eat though.” But she was the person who encouraged her half-Choctaw kids to play by the rules that existed if they wanted a better life. I don’t know if that was forgiving or she just realized what was necessary for survival?
Most of them did. Several opened business of their own … the two younger ones got degrees even. My youngest uncle on mom’s side just retired from being on the tribal council a couple of months ago…a very prestigious job he’s had for a while. Basically they came from nothing to doing well working by a simple formula (advice from my grandmother): “Be determined, keep your nose clean and work hard.” She also said, “If it’s going to happen you have to make it happen … don’t expect anyone else to.”
Now my mom married a hillbilly from the hills of Oklahoma who had joined the Army to better his life, but he lived by the same motto…and passed that on to my siblings and me and I have used the same phrases to encourage the kids I have taught (and currently teach) to spur them on to accomplish whatever. If you’ve read many of my posts you know I teach a lot of welfare dependent white kids and kids of native descent. It is so encouraging when one of them breaks the cycle of government dependence. Yes, I still talk about the American dream because I still believe in it.
I’m sorry, this post got longer than I intended but I get excited when talking about the opportunities here for my white trash and native students. Yes, my ancestors were done wrong, generally speaking and my grandmother was done wrong specifically speaking, but I know of no other system where the “conquered” can grow along side and be as successful or even more successful than the “conquering.” It’s not such a terrible system.
Never, ever apologize for expressing your thoughts as fully as you wish to do so. Especially when you do so that cogently.
Here's my thing:
I've been to Asia, but I didn't see downtown Tokyo, Seoul, or Teipei. What I saw means I've never seen Asia that I'd be interested in. It was hell for me.
I have seen Europe, however. They don't have as much land, and so property is more expensive. So is beef except in Spain.
But they have all the freedoms that we have except for carrying an AK47 downtown.
Nobody tells a woman that she can't have an abortion.
They have national healthcare.
They have affordable education.
They have a much more robust social safety net.
They have at least as much art and culture if not more.
They have more union represented jobs and better labor laws.
And they have much more and better public transportation.
So at this point, Mr. leaning, I have to ask you...
am I correct in assuming that these things mean less to you than the country life you enjoy in Oklahoma?
Because if that's true, no problem. We love what we love.
Where the issue comes in for me is, Why is being "exceptional" in terms of social regressiveness so valuable?
If it is, it is, but try to understand why it isn't for me.
And we think differently as well.
In Boston, poor people having eleven and twelve children is considered socially irresponsible and not even minimally admired. It's considered appalling.
Irresponsible procreation could very well be the biggest single cause of human misery globally.
But Boston is not Oklahoma, and as we agree, "Different strokes..."
Patriotism is the last refuge of a scoundrel. Samuel Johnson, 1775
Religion....is the opiate of the people. Karl Marx, 1848
Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose. Kris Kristofferson, 1969
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