And while we can still indulge our suspicions in lieu of having hard facts, imagine if Mr. Hole had been a positive regular presence in helping to raise young Brandon, MAYBE he'd have taught his son how to cope with having the last name, "Hole."
Johnny Cash's dad gave him the name, "Sue" and knew he had to be tough or die.
Johnny Cash - Boy Named Sue - Live - With Lyrics
Brandon's dad did him no favors.
I would ABSOLUTELY change my name somehow.
And the Mother didn't change her son's name for some inexplicable reason!
THAT is a form of child abuse.
Like sending him out into the cold, cruel world with a tattoo that says, "Kick Me."
I turned inward and began to focus on becoming a better person.
I had no problems attracting and entertaining Women of different varieties. My problems arose when I realized I was adversely influencing them and when I began to see that I was recreating a similar dynamic in all of my relationships, a dynamic they liked but which I didn't like, I sought to be a differently motivated person.
And in the process of change, I would've hated to hook up with someone only to 'discard' them when I learned a new thing and found they couldn't or might not want to go with me to that new 'place.'
"If you build it, they will come."
I am building my own ideological/philosophical ballpark.
Women will come and go. I just need to know how to vet them so that when a hypothetical "Mrs. Hole" shows up, that I don't give her any sign that ours would be a lasting relationship.
And that I don't impregnate her.
She might not be discriminating AT ALL.
But if I am being true to ME, I have to be discriminating as hell.
Isaiah 6:5
“Woe to me!” I cried. “I am ruined! For I am a man of unclean lips, and I live among a people of unclean lips, and my eyes have seen the King, the Lord Almighty.”
America seems to me to be all about competition, and the trouble with that is that very few people can win, though the system does produce, potentially, enough for everyone's needs. If you also make the means of murder easily available in a society where no-one trusts anyone else and is full of resentment, you will get constant killing - it's a simple as that. Bawling and bellowing about some fantasy called 'communism' is simply confusing the issue. Societies should look at themselves, not pretend versions of others.
PoliTalker (04-17-2021)
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