Please don't fuck this thread up with hate on Yurt, I have a serious question and want to remain anonymous, IOW, not talk to family about it. Thank you in advance.
My ex wife's daughter (not mine) contacted me some time ago. I asked why are you contacting me, I don't understand. She said her mom still talks about me and she wanted to get to know me. So I started chatting with her on Facebook.
Her situation is bleak. She has never asked for help or money. I stupidly said I might be able to help with college....
Not a contract, but WTF am I thinking!? Should I even be talking with her?
And yes, she is over 18, 21 I think.
No. But her mom talked about me a lot apparently. I didn't know she existed and I first I didn't care, but then she kept writing and I stupidly thought, well, what if she were my daughter.
I am 99 percent sure she is not mine. And she has never claimed to be mine. And hasn't asked for money. So I am like what the fook!
Last edited by BRUTALITOPS; 10-10-2019 at 11:49 PM.
I don't feel comfortable with this.
I think I am going to end it unless someone gives a compelling argument otherwise.
i mean, is it really any different from any other relationship where there is a breakup and then the ex randomly has a kid at some point? she doesn't have anything to do with you. my ex girlfriend has a kid now... it has nothing to do with me. I don't see how an ex-wife makes the situation any different.
OK.
But why should I have anything to do with her? If I was her dad, yes. Even if she was a child from another dad when I was married to her mom, totally understand.
But that never happened. Why in the heck is she even talking to me? And again, once I started talking with her, I realized, shit, what I am doing.
I am not her father. Yet she wants to talk with me like I am. Good Lord Yurt
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