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    Quote Originally Posted by Chuck View Post
    If you feel like helping her out and can swing it, why not? 'Helping' doesn't imply" Will Foot The Entire Bill" in a legal sense, either. Is your Ex a Psycho Mom? I've helped some people out I'm not related to and don't feel like a sucker, but others' results may vary.
    Nice post, Chuck. I feel the same way about his situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Steven VanderMolen View Post
    Nice post, Chuck. I feel the same way about his situation.
    I've had help from people, and don't mind passing it along. The 'social Darwinists' are mostly liars and sociopaths in real life.

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    you guys are retarded, and trying to make yurt a cuck. He literally has nothing to do with this person. She's a stranger.

    I understand if he was around a while as like a stepdad or something. Or even if she was just an estranged child where he left right after she was born or something. Obv in that scenario you could get to know her and maybe help her. That's fine. But... lots of people in this thread have ex girlfriends that moved on with their lives and started families and none of that has anything to do with you. Should everyone start contacting the daugther of all their high school sweethearts? that's basically what you are advocating. Yurt has nothing to do with this woman in any way shape or form. Based on what yurt has said in this thread so far, she's a complete random, and honestly it's not doing anyone any favors if yurt tries to play surrogate dad to this person. I don't know, the whole thing just seems really weird.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chuck View Post
    If you feel like helping her out and can swing it, why not? 'Helping' doesn't imply" Will Foot The Entire Bill" in a legal sense, either. Is your Ex a Psycho Mom? I've helped some people out I'm not related to and don't feel like a sucker, but others' results may vary.
    The ex is irrelevant. The daughter does not even talk with her anymore. According to the daughter, it has been 3 to 4 years.

    I appreciate your advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 21 days View Post
    you guys are retarded, and trying to make yurt a cuck. He literally has nothing to do with this person. She's a stranger.

    I understand if he was around a while as like a stepdad or something. Or even if she was just an estranged child where he left right after she was born or something. Obv in that scenario you could get to know her and maybe help her. That's fine. But... lots of people in this thread have ex girlfriends that moved on with their lives and started families and none of that has anything to do with you. Should everyone start contacting the daugther of all their high school sweethearts? that's basically what you are advocating. Yurt has nothing to do with this woman in any way shape or form. Based on what yurt has said in this thread so far, she's a complete random, and honestly it's not doing anyone any favors if yurt tries to play surrogate dad to this person. I don't know, the whole thing just seems really weird.
    WTF?

    Surrogate dad?

    What is wrong with you? Hypothetically I need another kid, who is an adult, so fucking what if I want to help this person related to my past? She knows her mom is not a good person, her father is a massive loser and she comes to me for help.

    Am I a loser if I want to help her? Am I loser of I don't want to help her? Should I just ignore her and maybe she becomes a poor loser without anyone helping her?

    AGAIN, she has NOT ASKED FOR MONEY, just ADVICE given my education and profession.

    If it goes beyond that, I should be concerned.

    But at this very point, am I doing wrong!!?

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    Quote Originally Posted by OG Yurt View Post
    No. But her mom talked about me a lot apparently. I didn't know she existed and I first I didn't care, but then she kept writing and I stupidly thought, well, what if she were my daughter.

    I am 99 percent sure she is not mine. And she has never claimed to be mine. And hasn't asked for money. So I am like what the fook!
    Wasn't your wife from Canada?
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    Quote Originally Posted by OG Yurt View Post
    I don't feel comfortable with this.

    I think I am going to end it unless someone gives a compelling argument otherwise.
    is she hot?


    sorry. I'm ashamed now. im gonna go scourge myself in the weiner.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Havana Moon View Post
    Wasn't your wife from Canada?
    The fuck is it to you and I didn't say first wife, asshole. I liked you once, fuck you now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AssHatZombie View Post
    is she hot?


    sorry. I'm ashamed now. im gonna go scourge myself in the weiner.


    You are my top 3 favs on this board.

    I just wished you post more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OG Yurt View Post


    You are my top 3 favs on this board.

    I just wished you post more.
    thanks, man.
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    Quote Originally Posted by OG Yurt View Post
    The fuck is it to you and I didn't say first wife, asshole. I liked you once, fuck you now.
    Why are getting so butthurt, just asked a simple question? You've only ever mentioned your Canadian wife on here previously. As they say in Merry Olde England, wind yer neck in son!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by OG Yurt View Post
    WTF?

    Surrogate dad?

    What is wrong with you? Hypothetically I need another kid, who is an adult, so fucking what if I want to help this person related to my past? She knows her mom is not a good person, her father is a massive loser and she comes to me for help.

    Am I a loser if I want to help her? Am I loser of I don't want to help her? Should I just ignore her and maybe she becomes a poor loser without anyone helping her?

    AGAIN, she has NOT ASKED FOR MONEY, just ADVICE given my education and profession.

    If it goes beyond that, I should be concerned.

    But at this very point, am I doing wrong!!?
    well she may get the wrong idea of you. it's really weird, you have nothing to do with her.

    why help her as opposed to anyone else, just because she's the daughter of your ex wife? You didn't raise her, you never knew her, she's not your kid. She has no more relation or purpose to you than my college girlfriends kid.

    If you just want to help a stranger for no reason other than the goodness and kindness of your heart, sure, go for it. But you wouldn't be doing it to any random woman, and I just don't see how her being the daughter of your ex wife has much to do with you

    Also I would normally not be butting in to such a personal thing going on in someones life, but your thread directly solicited peoples opinions on the matter, so that's what mine is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Steven VanderMolen View Post
    CO definitely has something wrong with him/her/itself. I think it's a he, but I could be wrong.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AssHatZombie View Post
    thanks, man.
    My totally straight, non gay fantasy, is, we watch The Big Lebowski together. Man. Dude.

    Since we will probably never meet, I may watch it, again, tonight, but I will have one for you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by 21 days View Post
    well she may get the wrong idea of you. it's really weird, you have nothing to do with her.

    why help her as opposed to anyone else, just because she's the daughter of your ex wife? You didn't raise her, you never knew her, she's not your kid. She has no more relation or purpose to you than my college girlfriends kid.

    If you just want to help a stranger for no reason other than the goodness and kindness of your heart, sure, go for it. But you wouldn't be doing it to any random woman, and I just don't see how her being the daughter of your ex wife has much to do with you

    Also I would normally not be butting in to such a personal thing going on in someones life, but your thread directly solicited peoples opinions on the matter, so that's what mine is.
    Fair point. It is a stupid fantasy on my part. She isn't my daughter and she is using that to likely (I don't know) take advantage of me.

    I've thought about it and I'm done with it.

    Please close thread.

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