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Thread: Women's Sexual Pleasure -- Apparently Still a Taboo

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    Quote Originally Posted by evince View Post
    a robotic penis can be used by men and women

    an electronic vagina sounds scary

    what if it malfunctions?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dark Soul View Post
    Obviously you know this from personal experience.
    Indeed I do. I used to be a Republican. Itís never to late to learn though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dark Soul View Post
    I love women. Probably have more that I consider close friends than men. But you listed 9 reasons why women can't live without us. There are hundreds more.
    Probably so!

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    Quote Originally Posted by evince View Post
    Yeah I was just riffing jokewise.


    if women can express joy about sex they can express disappointment

    Always make note of the ones who find it scary that women can enjoy sex

    they know what kind of reviews they would get
    its a double standard and itís a holdover from the times before effective birth control where getting pregnant was a much greater risk. The pill changed everything. Women could enjoy sex as freely as men for once. Something a lot of men arenít comfortable with.

    But letís not go to far into men bashing. I know a lot of men who absolutely adore their wives but are frustrated to the point of desperation because their wife has lost her libido and is no longer interested in sex and itís not because their husband isnít attentive, emotionally engaged, incompetent lovers or no longer attractive to them.

    Itís been my experience that women often canít enjoy sex at times as natural multi-taskers that they are they canít seem to shut down their own internal chatter to be in the moment that is needed to be uninhibited that makes sex fun and meaningful.

    So a few things Iíve learned that help your woman to shut down her internal chatter and to be in the moment and to improve her libido are;

    Emotionally engage her. Master flirting, give her drama too. Women need emotional richness in their lives. Be mindful of their needs.

    Encourage her to masturbate frequently. This applies to men too. The more you experience orgasms the more you learn to shut down the internal chatter the more pleasurable the experience becomes which causes a positive reinforcement loop that psychologically increases libido.

    Romance her... women love acting out sexual fantasies.

    Communicate to her. Tell her how emotionally important physical intamacy with her is to you.

    If none of that works seek professional counseling. There could be medical or serious psychological problems that lower libido.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mott the Hoople View Post
    its a double standard and it’s a holdover from the times before effective birth control where getting pregnant was a much greater risk. The pill changed everything. Women could enjoy sex as freely as men for once. Something a lot of men aren’t comfortable with.

    But let’s not go to far into men bashing. I know a lot of men who absolutely adore their wives but are frustrated to the point of desperation because their wife has lost her libido and is no longer interested in sex and it’s not because their husband isn’t attentive, emotionally engaged, incompetent lovers or no longer attractive to them.

    It’s been my experience that women often can’t enjoy sex at times as natural multi-taskers that they are they can’t seem to shut down their own internal chatter to be in the moment that is needed to be uninhibited that makes sex fun and meaningful.

    So a few things I’ve learned that help your woman to shut down her internal chatter and to be in the moment and to improve her libido are;

    Emotionally engage her. Master flirting, give her drama too. Women need emotional richness in their lives. Be mindful of their needs.

    Encourage her to masturbate frequently. This applies to men too. The more you experience orgasms the more you learn to shut down the internal chatter the more pleasurable the experience becomes which causes a positive reinforcement loop that psychologically increases libido.

    Romance her... women love acting out sexual fantasies.

    Communicate to her. Tell her how emotionally important physical intamacy with her is to you.

    If none of that works seek professional counseling. There could be medical or serious psychological problems that lower libido.
    Good advice. I might add meditation to your list. It teaches you to be in this moment and nowhere else. That can be translated to a lot of aspects of life -- a good meal, an interesting video/movie, and sexy times too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatOwlWoman View Post
    Good advice. I might add meditation to your list. It teaches you to be in this moment and nowhere else. That can be translated to a lot of aspects of life -- a good meal, an interesting video/movie, and sexy times too.
    Relaxation techniques do help to stop the internal chatter and lower inhibitions whether it is meditation, a nice massage, a glass or two of wine, etc.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatOwlWoman View Post
    I dunno... I lived in Missouri for 55 years. Pretty much only RW guys around, yet I managed to find a couple who were sane good men. Oh, and not Reichwing.

    Back to the point of the OP -- we are in the 21st century now. Why is female sexual enjoyment still a taboo??
    Social conditioning fueled by religious beliefs. It’s a Western thing, I don’t think the Asian cultures are as inhibited as we are.
    Thatís why Iím so screwed up, because I had a father who pushed me so hard,Ē Trump acknowledged in 2007, in a brief and rare moment of self-awareness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phantasmal View Post
    . Social conditioning fueled by religious beliefs. It’s a Western thing, I don’t think the Asian cultures are as inhibited as we are.
    Our Puritanical roots still haunt and inhibit us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mott the Hoople View Post
    Indeed I do. I used to be a Republican. Itís never to late to learn though.
    You were never a conservative, and that is what your silly rant was about.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatOwlWoman View Post
    Our Puritanical roots still haunt and inhibit us.
    it all stems from if a women likes sex you may end up spending your wealth and assets raising another mans child


    its why they began mutilating girl children


    trying to make sure there was NO PLESURE in sex for a woman


    they wanted it to be a TASK she performed for her owner husband

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dark Soul View Post
    You were never a conservative, and that is what your silly rant was about.
    you were never a human with normal emotions

    you are either a sociopath or a russo bot hole

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