evince (11-14-2018)
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Okay...go over to Able2Know...and discuss politics. Be sure to use, "You are a lying, cock-sucking mother-fucker" while you are there.
See if it works out "just like this one."
Try it at PoliticForum.com.
Try it at Debate Politics.com.
I do not think the rhetoric has "gone to hell."While this board has gone to hell compared to what it was a decade ago today's rhetoric is no different than yesterday's rhetoric, last year's rhetoric or last decade's rhetoric.
I think it accurately reflects what is happening in our nation right now.
Fuck you and all your sanctimonious bullshit.You're making an excuse for your own behavior.
Just because someone else acts a certain way doesn't mean you have to. You are part of the problem, not the solution.
evince (11-14-2018)
Personal Ignore Policy PIP: I like civil discourse. I will give you all the respect in the world if you respect me. Mouth off to me, or express overt racism, you will be PERMANENTLY Ignore Listed. Zero tolerance. No exceptions. I'll never read a word you write, even if quoted by another, nor respond to you, nor participate in your threads. ... Ignore the shallow. Cherish the thoughtful. Long Live Civil Discourse, Mutual Respect, and Good Debate! ps: Feel free to adopt my PIP. It works well.
In my opinion, the same rules of social etiquette apply whether words are coming out of your mouth, or being typed by one's fingers on a keyboard.
Plenty of message board dupes will call someone names and pejoratives, will attempt to dehumanize others, and will relentlessly gossip like schoolgirls behind someone's back.
But they do not actually do that in real life to someone's face.
That is the definition of cowardice - it is basically the domain of man-babies and sociopaths.
PoliTalker (11-14-2018)
PoliTalker (11-14-2018)
If I am in conversations like the ones that regularly take place here...
...I speak the same way I am being spoken to.
The entire of the politeness nonsense is way over-done. I defy anyone to establish reasonably that a polite conversation here in this forum changes minds with any greater efficacy than the standard "kick 'em in the balls" methods.
If one is looking for a clean, fresh air environment...one does not look for it at one of the Chicago slaughter houses...or at a pig farm in Arkansas. If one is looking for a pastoral picnic site...one does not look in the slums of a major city.
Anyone looking for polite, reasonable, logical political discourse...and has chosen THIS PLACE to look for it...
...is playing with him/herself.
Think about it.
You will see that I am correct on this point.
canceled.2021.1 (11-14-2018), evince (11-14-2018)
evince (11-14-2018)
PoliTalker (11-14-2018)
Hello Phantasmal,
Same here. Totally.
I used to mix it up just like everybody else. A long time ago and in a chat board far far away. I changed, so I know others can too.
I had nobody on ignore. Mixed it up with the worst. And I was nasty. I was proud of the fact that I had nobody on Ignore. Although I wondered just what that was worth. Nobody ever gave me a trophy for 'taking it.'
It often left me angry and stressed. And I carried those bad feelings with me into the rest of my life.
One day, I got tired of it and got curious if there was a more pleasant posting experience. I decided to try an experiment. I decided to run the experiment for 3 weeks, just to make sure I got a good feel for what it was like. I chose 3 weeks because that is the average amount of time it takes to change a habit. In my experiment, I placed every single poster who trash-talked me on Ignore. Wow, that list filled up fast! The changes were sudden, but the effect sank in a little slower.
Suddenly, many of the people I was talking to were off limits. I didn't want to 'cheat,' so I did not allow myself to even look at what they were saying. If I am going to cut myself off from grief, I wanted to follow through. Here's what I found:
-I ended up following fewer conversations, but the ones I followed became more meaningful.
-I spent less time on the internet and enjoyed more time for other things. It was like suddenly having more time. Fabulous!
-I gradually became less confrontational and more reserved, more accepting of different views. I came to find a whole new appreciation for diversity.
-I was less apt to use swear words in every day conversations away from the internet.
-I gained the ability to listen to others say things I disagreed with, without becoming angry.
-I was able to respond to people who said bothersome things by saying very thoughtful things which caused them to stop and think.
-I experienced less stress in my life.
-I became nicer to be around.
-I enjoy life more, and have remained strong and healthy.
I think what was going on before my big change was I was internalizing the stress of online flame wars, and taking that into my real life, which resulted in my life being more stressful. Naturally, when I got to the end of my 3 week 'experiment,' I knew I was onto something good. I didn't want to go back. That was when it occurred to me that I should make my own Ignore policy permanent. I adopted that personal rule; and have enjoyed the benefits ever since.
I also realized that it was a bad idea to talk about those whom I have placed on Ignore. I am trying to distance myself from their grief and stress and set a good example. So I just do my best to stay away, avoid taunting, simply have nothing to do with them, as if they don't even exist. I don't read their threads, don't reply to them. This way, everybody knows I mean what I say.
I learned that you can tell something about a person by the way they react to my policy. Sometimes I have doubts about somebody. I get the come-on/go-away thing from them. The ones who can be nice but also be mean. I wonder if they can check their posts while talking to me. So I will let them know I am considering them for Ignore. If they double down, I give up on them and place them on permanent Ignore. But if they back off, I give them another chance. That usually runs about 50-50. Some back off, others double down. I feel bad when I place somebody like that on permanent Ignore because I know I will never take them off, and I might be missing something good they might say. But I have to be true to myself. So I do what I need to do to take care of myself. And I am glad I do that.
If you don't look out for yourself, nobody else is going to. And by looking out for myself in this way, I am contributing a radical idea to the forum. The idea that people can exchange ideas and thoughts positively and enjoy the experience. Apparently it is a radical idea to just want to talk about politics at Just Plain Politics.
Personal Ignore Policy PIP: I like civil discourse. I will give you all the respect in the world if you respect me. Mouth off to me, or express overt racism, you will be PERMANENTLY Ignore Listed. Zero tolerance. No exceptions. I'll never read a word you write, even if quoted by another, nor respond to you, nor participate in your threads. ... Ignore the shallow. Cherish the thoughtful. Long Live Civil Discourse, Mutual Respect, and Good Debate! ps: Feel free to adopt my PIP. It works well.
Personal Ignore Policy PIP: I like civil discourse. I will give you all the respect in the world if you respect me. Mouth off to me, or express overt racism, you will be PERMANENTLY Ignore Listed. Zero tolerance. No exceptions. I'll never read a word you write, even if quoted by another, nor respond to you, nor participate in your threads. ... Ignore the shallow. Cherish the thoughtful. Long Live Civil Discourse, Mutual Respect, and Good Debate! ps: Feel free to adopt my PIP. It works well.
Personal Ignore Policy PIP: I like civil discourse. I will give you all the respect in the world if you respect me. Mouth off to me, or express overt racism, you will be PERMANENTLY Ignore Listed. Zero tolerance. No exceptions. I'll never read a word you write, even if quoted by another, nor respond to you, nor participate in your threads. ... Ignore the shallow. Cherish the thoughtful. Long Live Civil Discourse, Mutual Respect, and Good Debate! ps: Feel free to adopt my PIP. It works well.
Once again...you are looking for a healthy, pleasant, fresh air environment...in a slaughter house.
I am NOT disagreeing that polite, reasonable, logical conversations suck in some way...but I AM saying that looking for that here...rather than going to sites where that is encouraged...
...is bullshit.
Anyone complaining about the tenor of the conversations here...IS doing the equivalent of looking for a nice picnic setting in an inner city slum.
Get that...or don't get that.
It is what it is.
evince (11-14-2018)
Then do it.
But you have taken to lecturing others to do as you do.
That is where my comments are aimed.
By the way...no one is setting my tone for me. I decided to join this forum because I saw it as a welcome relief from the highly moderated, often cliquey, forums THAT REQUIRE YOU TO HAVE YOUR TONE SET FOR YOU.
Now...when I first came here, I lectured Evince on his/her tone.
I was wrong.
This is not a site for the faint of heart.
Lecture as much as you want. I think you are wrong...and I will have my say and move on.
canceled.2021.1 (11-14-2018), evince (11-14-2018)
Posting on here is not about me
its about killing lies
On sites lie this I can hand out facts and truth to way more humans than I could as an old lady in person.
I post as a public service
I love the subject of Politics
I am very informed
those are my talents
To help the world you need to rely on your talents.
In person Im a warm and fuzzy 60 year old lady
I have always had the handicap of being very hourglass shaped and seen as someone incapable of intellect
Yes this life time tomgirl who never dressed for sexy could NEVER escape the shape that my genes gave me
Guys have gone goggle eyed all my life
even though my face is merely average
no make up
Nothing but comfort clothes like jeans and sweats and T shirts all my life
I even hate jewelry (metal feels creepy on my skin)
People are always blown away at who I am inside
My good nature and my big boobs and round ass get silly people to automatically assume Im nothing more than those things.
You would be blown away here how sweet I am in person
Only drug dealers and assholes know my intolerance and fierceness in the face of wrong doing
I greet all new people to me as soon to be friends
those that after knowing me refuse to give up the vacuous bomb shell image just get heaved by the wayside politely.
those who just love me more after knowing whats inside become life long friends
those that expect me to stand by and watch people be treated badly rue the day they met me.
but that is enough about me
online gives me the power to NOT be hampered by those image problems
the internets levels the playing field for me
Im here to take out liars
Im here to educate fools to the facts they can ignore in real life
yes Its fun in a way for me
I LOVE THE SUBJECT
but it aint about my pleasure
Its about facts their sacredness
I can reach a much more massive amount of people
and they actually see ONLY my thoughts instead of my kaboom getting in the way.
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